THE ONE WHO GOT AWAY ( Archived) (44)

Aug 12, 2011 8:31 PM CST THE ONE WHO GOT AWAY
LovelyMorticia
LovelyMorticiaLovelyMorticiaHamilton, Ontario Canada73 Posts
I am horrible at posting! Are there lessons???
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Aug 12, 2011 8:36 PM CST THE ONE WHO GOT AWAY
IMunbreakable1
IMunbreakable1IMunbreakable1Utica, New York USA8 Threads 4 Polls 110 Posts
Why should he apologize for doing what he thought is right? It is not his fault that your feeling were hurt..He didn't do anything wrong or cruel. He did what he thought was best..it isn't anything to say he is sorry for..Should he feel compassion..yea..but he is not in the wrong from the way you explain..Its not like he mislead you or lied..
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Aug 13, 2011 4:49 PM CST THE ONE WHO GOT AWAY
OUTRAGEOUS
OUTRAGEOUSOUTRAGEOUSPanama, Panama44 Threads 1 Polls 1,768 Posts
potarick: Go ahead and re-open the door
Perhaps he is just seeking more green environment like Al Gore

John Wayne got more notches everything his gun roar
Your Romeo is still a man and needs more score

You cannot exactly prove his love and seriousness for sure
I think he is already imagining seeing you once again on all four!


You got it all wrong. And you never even took the time to read the whole thread, asuming that I had been on all fours with him. I was still a virgin when we dated, hun...

He is still a man and I am a woman, though not stupid nor gullible. don't assume...You'll make and @$$ of u and me...
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Aug 13, 2011 4:56 PM CST THE ONE WHO GOT AWAY
OUTRAGEOUS
OUTRAGEOUSOUTRAGEOUSPanama, Panama44 Threads 1 Polls 1,768 Posts
IMunbreakable1: Why should he apologize for doing what he thought is right? It is not his fault that your feeling were hurt..He didn't do anything wrong or cruel. He did what he thought was best..it isn't anything to say he is sorry for..Should he feel compassion..yea..but he is not in the wrong from the way you explain..Its not like he mislead you or lied..


Well, yes he did. We were dating, we were involved. And he just upped and left without a word. I wasn't wrong in marrying the girl (or yes he was, because he was not in love) he was wrong for not ending it with me, for whatever the reasons. It was his fault my feelings were hurt and my heart broken, it was no one else's fault. And he shouldn't feel compassion or pitty me, he needs to own up to his own actions. We did have plans for the future, so I was mislead.

I can see by your response that you think it is correct to date someone and then one day not call her again, because it isn't your fault if she falls in love with you, someone who might probably treated her right, with love and cared for her (though I take leave to believe that you'll care for someone besides yourself). that wouldn't be cruel or wrong, according to you... Your story must be quite a story...your heart must have ended in a million shards...hug
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