...a date later on! (19)
Yep sure have experienced that..your not alone there...try to relax & have no expectations as to how you will feel afterwards..just try & see it that its like meeting a new friend & if something comes of it great & if not well at least you tried 
MrsJaniPalantir: Good evening everybody!
A guy and I just arranged a date for later on and I am really looking forward to it. He seems nice, knows what he wants and isnt bad looking either.
What I am worried about is, is myself. I went on so many dates, can't even tell how many. But after the dates, I was disapointed, there wass no spark or anything, but mostly there was nothing from site. Now I am doubting at myself! Am I too picky, too fuzzy, too high standards?? I always had great chats with the guys before and really enjoyed it, but as soon as we met, all the excitment was gone.
Anybody experienced the same?
A guy and I just arranged a date for later on and I am really looking forward to it. He seems nice, knows what he wants and isnt bad looking either.
What I am worried about is, is myself. I went on so many dates, can't even tell how many. But after the dates, I was disapointed, there wass no spark or anything, but mostly there was nothing from site. Now I am doubting at myself! Am I too picky, too fuzzy, too high standards?? I always had great chats with the guys before and really enjoyed it, but as soon as we met, all the excitment was gone.
Anybody experienced the same?
hey hun,
mayb u just need to chill and just enjoy the date and let it unfold,if u go out with standards hun it will turn out bad for u,just enjoy the date and then 2moro think about is he the 1 for u,
best of luck hun..
...well, I am actually relaxed most of the time. My concern is myself!That I am looking for someone who doesnt excist. My use to say "Well, we have to bake a guy for you." 
Ok girls, will try and turn off my expections and see...
On how many dates, guys/ girls, have you been from this site?
Ok girls, will try and turn off my expections and see...
On how many dates, guys/ girls, have you been from this site?
MrsJaniPalantir: ...well, I am actually relaxed most of the time. My concern is myself!That I am looking for someone who doesnt excist. My use to say "Well, we have to bake a guy for you."
Ok girls, will try and turn off my expections and see...
On how many dates, guys/ girls, have you been from this site?
Ok girls, will try and turn off my expections and see...
On how many dates, guys/ girls, have you been from this site?
Been on one...has kinda put me off to be honest...but enjoy tonight
darkie23: Been on one...has kinda put me off to be honest...but enjoy tonight
no wonder you wouldnt take me for a spin on your motorcycle
TEASE: no wonder you wouldnt take me for a spin on your motorcycle
Ah Tease..don't be feeling bad your my friend
darkie23: Been on one...has kinda put me off to be honest...but enjoy tonight
what happened?
MrsJaniPalantir: ...well, I am actually relaxed most of the time. My concern is myself!That I am looking for someone who doesnt excist. My use to say "Well, we have to bake a guy for you."
Ok girls, will try and turn off my expections and see...
On how many dates, guys/ girls, have you been from this site?
been on one date from hereOk girls, will try and turn off my expections and see...
On how many dates, guys/ girls, have you been from this site?
MrsJaniPalantir: Good evening everybody!
A guy and I just arranged a date for later on and I am really looking forward to it. He seems nice, knows what he wants and isnt bad looking either.
What I am worried about is, is myself. I went on so many dates, can't even tell how many. But after the dates, I was disapointed, there wass no spark or anything, but mostly there was nothing from site. Now I am doubting at myself! Am I too picky, too fuzzy, too high standards?? I always had great chats with the guys before and really enjoyed it, but as soon as we met, all the excitment was gone.
Anybody experienced the same?
A guy and I just arranged a date for later on and I am really looking forward to it. He seems nice, knows what he wants and isnt bad looking either.
What I am worried about is, is myself. I went on so many dates, can't even tell how many. But after the dates, I was disapointed, there wass no spark or anything, but mostly there was nothing from site. Now I am doubting at myself! Am I too picky, too fuzzy, too high standards?? I always had great chats with the guys before and really enjoyed it, but as soon as we met, all the excitment was gone.
Anybody experienced the same?
Why do people look for the "spark" after meeting someone for the first time? Why not just enjoy the company and then at the end of the night decide if you want to meet again!!. Remember, the other person is also nervous. If you enjoyed the company online, then it will happen in real life. Just like the net,it will take a bit of time for both to relax.
Hope all goes well. Good luck
darkie23: Ah Tease..don't be feeling bad your my friend
I'm more of an accomplice
darkie23: Accomplice to what??? you sound like we are about to rob the local credit union???
hey I need a getaway driver
MrsJaniPalantir: Good evening everybody!
I went on so many dates, can't even tell how many. But after the dates, I was disapointed, there wass no spark or anything, but mostly there was nothing from site. Now I am doubting at myself! Am I too picky, too fuzzy, too high standards??
I went on so many dates, can't even tell how many. But after the dates, I was disapointed, there wass no spark or anything, but mostly there was nothing from site. Now I am doubting at myself! Am I too picky, too fuzzy, too high standards??
No, you're spot on, that sounds about just right. Lowering standards in not a good idea. If anything you sould raise them a little.
How did your date go ?
ardera: Why do people look for the "spark" after meeting someone for the first time? Why not just enjoy the company and then at the end of the night decide if you want to meet again!!. Remember, the other person is also nervous. If you enjoyed the company online, then it will happen in real life. Just like the net,it will take a bit of time for both to relax.
Hope all goes well. Good luck
A very good point Ardera . Hope all goes well. Good luck
Oh and I like your tatts (no typo error) Mrs J . I hope you date went well 
) Mrs J . I hope you date went well 
well!!! how did the date go? 
The joys of talking so much on here then meeting in person and not having much to talk about you haven't already, The result of peaking the pip so to say, You may be fussy, not easily amused or grown to not be excited by meeting random strangers offline anymore. You may have bad taste or the guys just didn't make an effort or were that embarrassed or shy they didn't know what to do and by your disappointment , took the hint that you didn't like them.
But you should really know if you're too needy or fussy or picky, however just wanting a tall guy is not what i would call any of those. Is that really all you want in a guy?
But you should really know if you're too needy or fussy or picky, however just wanting a tall guy is not what i would call any of those. Is that really all you want in a guy?
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A guy and I just arranged a date for later on and I am really looking forward to it. He seems nice, knows what he wants and isnt bad looking either.
What I am worried about is, is myself. I went on so many dates, can't even tell how many. But after the dates, I was disapointed, there wass no spark or anything, but mostly there was nothing from site. Now I am doubting at myself! Am I too picky, too fuzzy, too high standards?? I always had great chats with the guys before and really enjoyed it, but as soon as we met, all the excitment was gone.
Anybody experienced the same?