when im angry, i used to keep quite, not talk till they say sorry and aware of their mistake. But I still do my responsibility and care of them. I know this is not good, the best solution is to discuss and solve the matter, but sometime our anger make it not work. What about you?
heavensmile: when im angry, i used to keep quite, not talk till they say sorry and aware of their mistake. But I still do my responsibility and care of them. I know this is not good, the best solution is to discuss and solve the matter, but sometime our anger make it not work. What about you?
heavensmile: when im angry, i used to keep quite, not talk till they say sorry and aware of their mistake. But I still do my responsibility and care of them. I know this is not good, the best solution is to discuss and solve the matter, but sometime our anger make it not work. What about you?
Hi, Heavensmile-Yes, I was like you/ I would stay quiet because I do not like confrontation. The best thing to do when there is anger is to leave and come back later to discuss the issues when both of you are calm. It is also good to write your feelings and let your partner read it. Through writing you are able to express your feelings more freely and it is a form of self therapy too.
freesparrow: Hi, Heavensmile-Yes, I was like you/ I would stay quiet because I do not like confrontation. The best thing to do when there is anger is to leave and come back later to discuss the issues when both of you are calm. It is also good to write your feelings and let your partner read it. Through writing you are able to express your feelings more freely and it is a form of self therapy too.
thats great sist, will try hehehehe....maybe he will write also his feeling. then there will be letter corepondency
manroe23: I start to throw things like his bag, his helmet, his guitar
ohhh wait that's not true i usually keep quite until he say sorry
throw thing will not solve the matter, what is his helmet and guitar mistake? but if u want to throw his bag with full on money inside, then i will cach it.
freesparrow: Hi, Heavensmile-Yes, I was like you/ I would stay quiet because I do not like confrontation. The best thing to do when there is anger is to leave and come back later to discuss the issues when both of you are calm. It is also good to write your feelings and let your partner read it. Through writing you are able to express your feelings more freely and it is a form of self therapy too.
I like this idea too. I never liked to argue, and my partner always knew when I was angry because I would get *very* quiet.
this idea is good because there are...
No interruptions while telling your feelings... no forgetting what you wanted to say.
Good one... I will remember this if I ever get into the situation again.
No interruptions while telling your feelings... no forgetting what you wanted to say[/quote
Today's lesson in my language arts class included a discussion on why writing is an effective method of communication and those were the exact points that were mentioned. You think just like an 8th grader!!! You get an A for the day.
heavensmile: when im angry, i used to keep quite, not talk till they say sorry and aware of their mistake. But I still do my responsibility and care of them. I know this is not good, the best solution is to discuss and solve the matter, but sometime our anger make it not work. What about you?
Great idea Heaven! ... for your thread
my partner or whoever lives wih me knows immediately when I am angry, because more I am silent more noisy is my music I listen to! I am a clasical music lover and you cannot imagine how thrilling for example " Storm" from Vivaldi can be...
freesparrow: No interruptions while telling your feelings... no forgetting what you wanted to say[/quote
Today's lesson in my language arts class included a discussion on why writing is an effective method of communication and those were the exact points that were mentioned. You think just like an 8th grader!!! You get an A for the day.
heavensmile: who angry is me sist, not he. maybe if its happen our servant will be the post courier....hahahaha
Hahaha Oh yea-you are the angry one. Okay you are so funny..you can make yourself laugh until YOU forget. I think my next trip will be to Indonesia to visit you, Heavensmile. We can laugh together all day long!!
my partner or whoever lives wih me knows immediately when I am angry, because more I am silent more noisy is my music I listen to! I am a clasical music lover and you cannot imagine how thrilling for example " Storm" from Vivaldi can be...
Thats great sist, i think ur patner will happy to make u angry, coz he can get more nice music. is the music better than ur own music? maybe if u angry then ur patner will dance.
freesparrow: Hahaha Oh yea-you are the angry one. Okay you are so funny..you can make yourself laugh until YOU forget. I think my next trip will be to Indonesia to visit you, Heavensmile. We can laugh together all day long!!
heavensmile: Thats great sist, i think ur patner will happy to make u angry, coz he can get more nice music. is the music better than ur own music? maybe if u angry then ur patner will dance.
Heaven, I never wanted my partner "to dance how I whistle" it is an old proverb here... and maybe that is a mistake ... I am so glad you liked the music! A lovely Saturday to you!
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What about you?