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Aug 27, 2011 12:03 AM CST if you are angry to ur patner, what you do?
when im angry, i used to keep quite, not talk till they say sorry and aware of their mistake. But I still do my responsibility and care of them. I know this is not good, the best solution is to discuss and solve the matter, but sometime our anger make it not work.
What about you?
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Aug 27, 2011 12:10 AM CST if you are angry to ur patner, what you do?
Rummy1
Rummy1Rummy1Baku, Azerbaijan38 Threads 3 Polls 565 Posts
heavensmile: when im angry, i used to keep quite, not talk till they say sorry and aware of their mistake. But I still do my responsibility and care of them. I know this is not good, the best solution is to discuss and solve the matter, but sometime our anger make it not work.
What about you?


i kill her,and all problems solvedlaugh
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Aug 27, 2011 12:13 AM CST if you are angry to ur patner, what you do?
manroe23
manroe23manroe23indonesia, Jakarta Indonesia7 Threads 6,801 Posts
I start to throw things like his bag, his helmet, his guitar rolling on the floor laughing
















ohhh wait that's not true grin i usually keep quite until he say sorry wine
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Aug 27, 2011 12:14 AM CST if you are angry to ur patner, what you do?
freesparrow
freesparrowfreesparrowHarlingen, Texas USA10 Threads 1 Polls 1,162 Posts
heavensmile: when im angry, i used to keep quite, not talk till they say sorry and aware of their mistake. But I still do my responsibility and care of them. I know this is not good, the best solution is to discuss and solve the matter, but sometime our anger make it not work.
What about you?

Hi, Heavensmile-Yes, I was like you/ I would stay quiet because I do not like confrontation. The best thing to do when there is anger is to leave and come back later to discuss the issues when both of you are calm. It is also good to write your feelings and let your partner read it. Through writing you are able to express your feelings more freely and it is a form of self therapy too.
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Aug 27, 2011 12:17 AM CST if you are angry to ur patner, what you do?
freesparrow: Hi, Heavensmile-Yes, I was like you/ I would stay quiet because I do not like confrontation. The best thing to do when there is anger is to leave and come back later to discuss the issues when both of you are calm. It is also good to write your feelings and let your partner read it. Through writing you are able to express your feelings more freely and it is a form of self therapy too.


thats great sist, will try hehehehe....maybe he will write also his feeling. then there will be letter corepondency cheers
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Aug 27, 2011 12:20 AM CST if you are angry to ur patner, what you do?
Rummy1: i kill her,and all problems solved


aha.....hope u r not my patner boxing if so, i may killed already
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Aug 27, 2011 12:21 AM CST if you are angry to ur patner, what you do?
freesparrow
freesparrowfreesparrowHarlingen, Texas USA10 Threads 1 Polls 1,162 Posts
thats great sist, will try hehehehe....maybe he will write also his feeling. then there will be letter corepondency[/quote

laugh You are funny...you can do that too....make him laugh until he forgets that he is angry.....lol!!!
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Aug 27, 2011 12:22 AM CST if you are angry to ur patner, what you do?
manroe23: I start to throw things like his bag, his helmet, his guitar

ohhh wait that's not true i usually keep quite until he say sorry


throw thing will not solve the matter, what is his helmet and guitar mistake?
but if u want to throw his bag with full on money inside, then i will cach it.
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Aug 27, 2011 12:24 AM CST if you are angry to ur patner, what you do?
Ur_Knight
Ur_KnightUr_KnightWindsor, Ontario Canada10 Threads 2,176 Posts
freesparrow: Hi, Heavensmile-Yes, I was like you/ I would stay quiet because I do not like confrontation. The best thing to do when there is anger is to leave and come back later to discuss the issues when both of you are calm. It is also good to write your feelings and let your partner read it. Through writing you are able to express your feelings more freely and it is a form of self therapy too.


I like this idea too. I never liked to argue, and my partner always knew when I was angry because I would get *very* quiet.

this idea is good because there are...

No interruptions while telling your feelings...
no forgetting what you wanted to say.

Good one... I will remember this if I ever get into the situation again.

thumbs up
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Aug 27, 2011 12:34 AM CST if you are angry to ur patner, what you do?
freesparrow
freesparrowfreesparrowHarlingen, Texas USA10 Threads 1 Polls 1,162 Posts
No interruptions while telling your feelings...
no forgetting what you wanted to say[/quote

Today's lesson in my language arts class included a discussion on why writing is an effective method of communication and those were the exact points that were mentioned. You think just like an 8th grader!!! You get an A for the day.
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Aug 27, 2011 12:35 AM CST if you are angry to ur patner, what you do?
Aswina
AswinaAswinaNitra, Slovakia2 Threads 1,373 Posts
heavensmile: when im angry, i used to keep quite, not talk till they say sorry and aware of their mistake. But I still do my responsibility and care of them. I know this is not good, the best solution is to discuss and solve the matter, but sometime our anger make it not work.
What about you?

Great idea Heaven! ... for your thread thumbs up

my partner or whoever lives wih me knows immediately when I am angry, because more I am silent more noisy is my music I listen to! grin
I am a clasical music lover and you cannot imagine how thrilling for example " Storm" from Vivaldi can be... laugh

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Aug 27, 2011 1:18 AM CST if you are angry to ur patner, what you do?
freesparrow: thats great sist, will try hehehehe....maybe he will write also his feeling. then there will be letter corepondency[/quote

You are funny...you can do that too....make him laugh until he forgets that he is angry.....lol!!!


who angry is me sist, not he.
maybe if its happen our servant will be the post courier....hahahaha
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Aug 27, 2011 1:20 AM CST if you are angry to ur patner, what you do?
Ur_Knight
Ur_KnightUr_KnightWindsor, Ontario Canada10 Threads 2,176 Posts
freesparrow: No interruptions while telling your feelings...
no forgetting what you wanted to say[/quote

Today's lesson in my language arts class included a discussion on why writing is an effective method of communication and those were the exact points that were mentioned. You think just like an 8th grader!!! You get an A for the day.


yay I gots me a A !
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Aug 27, 2011 1:24 AM CST if you are angry to ur patner, what you do?
freesparrow
freesparrowfreesparrowHarlingen, Texas USA10 Threads 1 Polls 1,162 Posts
heavensmile: who angry is me sist, not he.
maybe if its happen our servant will be the post courier....hahahaha

Hahaha Oh yea-you are the angry one. Okay you are so funny..you can make yourself laugh until YOU forget. I think my next trip will be to Indonesia to visit you, Heavensmile. We can laugh together all day long!!
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Aug 27, 2011 1:31 AM CST if you are angry to ur patner, what you do?
Aswina: Great idea Heaven! ... for your thread

my partner or whoever lives wih me knows immediately when I am angry, because more I am silent more noisy is my music I listen to!
I am a clasical music lover and you cannot imagine how thrilling for example " Storm" from Vivaldi can be...



Thats great sist, i think ur patner will happy to make u angry, coz he can get more nice music. is the music better than ur own music? dancing
maybe if u angry then ur patner will dance.
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Aug 27, 2011 1:35 AM CST if you are angry to ur patner, what you do?
freesparrow: Hahaha Oh yea-you are the angry one. Okay you are so funny..you can make yourself laugh until YOU forget. I think my next trip will be to Indonesia to visit you, Heavensmile. We can laugh together all day long!!


sure sist, plz. u most welcome. hug
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Aug 27, 2011 2:01 AM CST if you are angry to ur patner, what you do?
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
Make love....its a great way to solve issues.bouquet
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Aug 27, 2011 2:03 AM CST if you are angry to ur patner, what you do?
lkdex44
lkdex44lkdex44Nottingham, Nottinghamshire, England UK75 Posts
time4fun4u: Make love....its a great way to solve issues.


i know - my ex use to find it a big turn on when i got angry with him - weirdo
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Aug 27, 2011 2:04 AM CST if you are angry to ur patner, what you do?
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
lkdex44: i know - my ex use to find it a big turn on when i got angry with him - weirdo
laugh wave bouquet
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Aug 27, 2011 2:08 AM CST if you are angry to ur patner, what you do?
Aswina
AswinaAswinaNitra, Slovakia2 Threads 1,373 Posts
heavensmile: Thats great sist, i think ur patner will happy to make u angry, coz he can get more nice music. is the music better than ur own music?
maybe if u angry then ur patner will dance.


teddybear Heaven,
I never wanted my partner "to dance how I whistle" laugh it is an old proverb here... and maybe that is a mistake ...
I am so glad you liked the music! A lovely Saturday to you!bouquet
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