Marriage is what you make of it. If you are both terrible partners, it's going to be a terrible marriage. A good marriage takes good partners.
It's that plain and simple. Any relationship be it a friendship, work, parent and child or a couple in live, is going to take work and is never easy. 90 % of the time, a marriage does not work, because of the 2 people in the marriage. The other 10, is the outside influences the couple allow into their lives to help ruin the relaionship.
KHD100: Marriage is what you make of it. If you are both terrible partners, it's going to be a terrible marriage. A good marriage takes good partners.
It's that plain and simple. Any relationship be it a friendship, work, parent and child or a couple in love, is going to take work and is never easy. 90 % of the time, a marriage does not work, because of the 2 people in the marriage. The other 10, is the outside influences the couple allow into their lives to help ruin the relaionship.
Why they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man put asunder. ~Matthew 19:6~ This scripture puts the importance of marriage and it's advantage into perspective for me.
In memory of Oscar Wilde who passed away on November 30th. 1900: “Don't give a woman advice; one should never give a woman anything she can't wear in the evening.”
Brew01: Getting married is like going to the restaurant with friends. You order what you want, and when you see what the other fellow has, you wish you had ordered that.
After leaving a 29 year marriage 3 years ago...not interested in getting married again. LOL I guess it is an individual choice..just my opinion. Can't think of what benefit there would be to remarrying.
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It's that plain and simple. Any relationship be it a friendship, work, parent and child or a couple in live, is going to take work and is never easy. 90 % of the time, a marriage does not work, because of the 2 people in the marriage. The other 10, is the outside influences the couple allow into their lives to help ruin the relaionship.