Why so difficult to fall in love ( Archived) (45)

Dec 18, 2011 9:37 PM CST Why so difficult to fall in love
citra29111
citra29111citra29111unknown, Jakarta Indonesia3 Threads 17 Posts
Sometimes I'm so jealous with my friends, they are so easy to fall in love and get girl friend or boy friend. Why I'm so difficult to fall in love.

My mom told me I have a cold heart, so I'm so difficult to fall in love. I think I'm not, maybe the man who can't make me fall in love with him. I'm not type so aggressive to chase man. So, why people so easy to fall in love? How you know you fall in love?
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Dec 18, 2011 9:45 PM CST Why so difficult to fall in love
marss
marssmarssmorriston, Florida USA47 Threads 5 Polls 2,606 Posts
relax and let it happen..i married at 31 and it did not last...
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Dec 18, 2011 9:47 PM CST Why so difficult to fall in love
HealthyLiving
HealthyLivingHealthyLivingSomewhere In, Tennessee USA527 Threads 2 Polls 4,775 Posts
Many fall in love so quickly, without taking time to get to know the other person first and the relationship does not last very long.
So they find someone else and fall in love fast again.

Maybe you are very smart and you will wait until the right man comes along instead of having frivolous relationships with the wrong men.

It is okay to be that way. You will know when it happens and hopefully it will be joyous and last for a long time.

I wish the Best for you,
HLbouquet heart wings teddybear
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Dec 18, 2011 9:55 PM CST Why so difficult to fall in love
citra29111
citra29111citra29111unknown, Jakarta Indonesia3 Threads 17 Posts
marss: relax and let it happen..i married at 31 and it did not last...

Thanks, I wish before 31 I can marriage but it depend on God, if He want me to get marriage before my age 31 next year. He would be sent man who believe and affraid of God :)
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Dec 18, 2011 9:59 PM CST Why so difficult to fall in love
citra29111
citra29111citra29111unknown, Jakarta Indonesia3 Threads 17 Posts
HealthyLiving: Many fall in love so quickly, without taking time to get to know the other person first and the relationship does not last very long.
So they find someone else and fall in love fast again.

Maybe you are very smart and you will wait until the right man comes along instead of having frivolous relationships with the wrong men.

It is okay to be that way. You will know when it happens and hopefully it will be joyous and last for a long time.

I wish the Best for you,
HL


Thanks miss, thanks 4 the support and I wish the best for you too and God bless you
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Dec 18, 2011 9:59 PM CST Why so difficult to fall in love
marss
marssmarssmorriston, Florida USA47 Threads 5 Polls 2,606 Posts
citra29111: Thanks, I wish before 31 I can marriage but it depend on God, if He want me to get marriage before my age 31 next year. He would be sent man who believe and affraid of God :)
dont rush it...make sure you have what you want before you say yes...it is not a bad thing to be married so late...may your own choice don't be pushed into it if you are not ready...you will have to live with your choice...better to not be married than in a failing relationship...think about it....mawar for u...sad flower
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Dec 18, 2011 10:26 PM CST Why so difficult to fall in love
citra29111
citra29111citra29111unknown, Jakarta Indonesia3 Threads 17 Posts
marss: dont rush it...make sure you have what you want before you say yes...it is not a bad thing to be married so late...may your own choice don't be pushed into it if you are not ready...you will have to live with your choice...better to not be married than in a failing relationship...think about it....mawar for u...


Makasih mawarnya hehe. Honestly I'm not ready but my friends said don't worry, just get your soulmate and know him well then God will be show the way. But in my country is a little different. I'm underpressure my mom, the people here, so heavy day by day
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Dec 18, 2011 10:27 PM CST Why so difficult to fall in love
cloud747
cloud747cloud747winnipeg, Manitoba Canada130 Threads 27 Polls 2,947 Posts
well , some older women will clearly feel upset about you. so leave the young guys alone. They are mostly sought by the maturer Ws.
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Dec 18, 2011 10:29 PM CST Why so difficult to fall in love
cloud747
cloud747cloud747winnipeg, Manitoba Canada130 Threads 27 Polls 2,947 Posts
citra29111: Sometimes I'm so jealous with my friends, they are so easy to fall in love and get girl friend or boy friend. Why I'm so difficult to fall in love.

My mom told me I have a cold heart, so I'm so difficult to fall in love. I think I'm not, maybe the man who can't make me fall in love with him. I'm not type so aggressive to chase man. So, why people so easy to fall in love? How you know you fall in love?


o and one more thing. keep away from sniffers
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Dec 18, 2011 10:32 PM CST Why so difficult to fall in love
Boy67
Boy67Boy67Cyprus, Limassol Cyprus379 Posts
citra29111: Sometimes I'm so jealous with my friends, they are so easy to fall in love and get girl friend or boy friend. Why I'm so difficult to fall in love.

My mom told me I have a cold heart, so I'm so difficult to fall in love. I think I'm not, maybe the man who can't make me fall in love with him. I'm not type so aggressive to chase man. So, why people so easy to fall in love? How you know you fall in love?
Just don't bother. I think single will be better for you.comfort
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Dec 18, 2011 10:57 PM CST Why so difficult to fall in love
citra29111
citra29111citra29111unknown, Jakarta Indonesia3 Threads 17 Posts
Boy67: Just don't bother. I think single will be better for you.

When I was young, yes its perfect but I want be perfect woman, real woman who has family (husband and kid)
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Dec 18, 2011 10:59 PM CST Why so difficult to fall in love
Boy67
Boy67Boy67Cyprus, Limassol Cyprus379 Posts
citra29111: When I was young, yes its perfect but I want be perfect woman, real woman who has family (husband and kid)
It's never late, i wish you good luck.
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Dec 18, 2011 10:59 PM CST Why so difficult to fall in love
citra29111
citra29111citra29111unknown, Jakarta Indonesia3 Threads 17 Posts
cloud747: well , some older women will clearly feel upset about you. so leave the young guys alone. They are mostly sought by the maturer Ws.

I don't understand what do you mean
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Dec 18, 2011 11:08 PM CST Why so difficult to fall in love
marss
marssmarssmorriston, Florida USA47 Threads 5 Polls 2,606 Posts
citra29111: I don't understand what do you mean
remember what i told you???
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Dec 18, 2011 11:09 PM CST Why so difficult to fall in love
single4ever
single4eversingle4everCalgary, Alberta Canada1,109 Posts
citra29111: I don't understand what do you mean


His comment was about older women dating younger men. I don't know what you do in your spare time; but getting out in the community may be a way to meet someone. Try volunteering or joining an activity group. Also, go out and enjoy yourself without trying hard to meet someone. Have some fun rather than dwelling on meeting someone. I sincerely hope that you will find someone that will love and treasure you. hug
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Dec 18, 2011 11:14 PM CST Why so difficult to fall in love
citra29111
citra29111citra29111unknown, Jakarta Indonesia3 Threads 17 Posts
marss: remember what i told you???

Yes I did read your mail, thanks :)
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Dec 18, 2011 11:36 PM CST Why so difficult to fall in love
citra29111
citra29111citra29111unknown, Jakarta Indonesia3 Threads 17 Posts
single4ever: His comment was about older women dating younger men. I don't know what you do in your spare time; but getting out in the community may be a way to meet someone. Try volunteering or joining an activity group. Also, go out and enjoy yourself without trying hard to meet someone. Have some fun rather than dwelling on meeting someone. I sincerely hope that you will find someone that will love and treasure you.


Oh like that. Yes I'm join to club books, and some club but I don't think to find man to be bf, my job as journalist make me to meet all of people too
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Dec 18, 2011 11:49 PM CST Why so difficult to fall in love
mustbnutz
mustbnutzmustbnutzKingman, Arizona USA33 Threads 5 Polls 3,730 Posts
citra29111: Oh like that. Yes I'm join to club books, and some club but I don't think to find man to be bf, my job as journalist make me to meet all of people too




Stick to your core beliefs,mingle and meet the type of people that you would like to be acquainted with and most importantly don`t be in a rush because you are going to have another birthday. Love will come when you least expect it.cheers
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Dec 19, 2011 3:15 AM CST Why so difficult to fall in love
manroe23
manroe23manroe23indonesia, Jakarta Indonesia7 Threads 6,801 Posts
Just take your time , i believe there is someone who waiting for and gonna love you more , gud luck teddybear cheers wave
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Dec 19, 2011 8:31 AM CST Why so difficult to fall in love
Nattynatty
NattynattyNattynattyBrussels, Brussels (Bruxelles) Belgium1 Posts
I think men just spend their time here. Therefore, they fall in love virtually very quickly. I've seen it more than once. But I hope to find a man for me.
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