trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK8,005 posts
Rose1010: What is the way to open your heart again without being scared...
just have the confidence.....in yourself....as they say....once bitten twice shy......look at the person....not what he has,,,,,but the person.....if he,s the jack the lad type...forget it.....someone who doesent push himself ...and yet you feel comtable in his company......some times from little acorns big oak trees grow....if you get my drift,,,,,,,jmo.
Rose1010: What is the way to open your heart again without being scared...
May be ... love yourself, heal the emotional wounds from past relationships (lovers, friends, family, work colleagues), get your life to a place where you are happy, functioning well and at peace. Then you will know that even should the next relationship not work out, your whole life won´t be falling apart. The fear could then very well disappear.
EagleWoman: May be ... love yourself, heal the emotional wounds from past relationships (lovers, friends, family, work colleagues), get your life to a place where you are happy, functioning well and at peace. Then you will know that even should the next relationship not work out, your whole life won´t be falling apart. The fear could then very well disappear.
When I have no one to share a special occasion with (like in the last 2 years and since all my family lives in different countries) I invite friends and a few acquaintences over for a party and tell them to bring a friend.
The rule is everyone has to bring whatever they´re gonna drink and 1 dish.
I provide the place, plates, glasses, cutllery, napkins couple of bottles, a couple of dishes and music.
It brings people together, everyone get to taste all sorts of different foods and everyone has a ball. AND it´s possible on a low budget!!!
Once your set free then freedom of goals becomes a wonderfull reality.I picked up the pieces and I snugged them up till they were good and snug.So Im still moving:) Somewhere warm I think lol :)
when youve been hurt and build a wall it often takes a long time to pull it down...
take it one brick at a time....
I think when you finally meet someone who interests you your heart will take care of itself...
Tell your new man you are cautious and wary so he understands it will take some time for you to fully open up to him.....if he is worthy of your love he will give you that time ..
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