A lesson of why you should not judge someone for other mistakes. ( Archived) (12)

Ok I wrote this a while back and i want to see what people think and please be nice lol.


Ok there once was a man named Jason one day as Jason was walking down the street a woman apporched him and asked him out. "sure" he replied and he went out on a date with her. After a while of getting to know her and seeing she was someone he would be happy with he asked her to marry her and she said yes. Well a couple years went by and he started to notice things that he didn't like and one day cought her with someone else and left her. Well as he was sitting in a restraunt a lady walked up and said "Mr a woman over at that table has offered to buy you a drink" and he accepted and walked over and met her. After a while the same thing went on and he left her too. Jason met another one with no luck and finnaly one day suddenly yelled "God why must I be hurt by them what have I done to deserve this" And at that moment an angel heard him and flew up to god and god replied "I see now that his heart is wanting to find its other half so I will send the woman to heal the wounds caused by the pain he has went through, and so god makes it to where the woman he was meant to be with is sent his way. As Jason was walking he noticed a woman walking up and as she said hi he yelled "No I wont go out with you I have been hurt to dam much to give another woman a chance and I wont give you the chance to do the same" and he walked away. The girl sat down on the curb as if she had been hit by a brich and started to cry. When Jason got to the end of the road he yelled "I've had it god I give up I will never find the woman I am meant to be with" as he finished speaking a bright light apeared in the sky and said "Jason in your anger you have turned away the very woman that I have chosen to be with thee, and so I have taken her from u never again will U ever see her' To this day jason is still looking and he has not found her yet So I tell you anyone who reads this, Becareful who blame for others mistakes, because that person may hold the very key to your heart and have the love that was meant to heal your wounds.

Forgivness is about looking pass the mistakes of others if we keep blameing each other for things were never going to get anywhere in life and will always hit dead ends at every turn.

If something is wrong with this storie please forgive me its been a while but this is why I dont hold a grudge aginst people who have hirt me nor do I blame others for what people have done because that one person may be the one that was meant to heal the wounds not make it worse.

LOL WOOPS I MEANT MARRY HIM LOL

OK i noticed i did a bunch of typos in the story and well you'll still understand what I'm saying so

^_^ I liked that, it was really good!

thanks I just want people so see that sometimes anger can push away even the one they were meant to be with thats why I believe we should forgive and move on to find the one were realy meant to be with. I mean I know it hurts very bad to get a broken heart but if that person was meant to be the one you were meant to be with they wouldnt have hurt you how ever they did the real one you are meant to be with was put on this earth to heal the pain not make it worse so to everyone reading this forgive, forget and move on and I promise you you will find your true love because trust me it still exists and we need to bring it back to the way it use to be.

I completely agree with you on that statement

My fiance has 3 "failed" marriages, all undertaken while he and his wives were active alcoholics. He has now been sober for 10 years and is totally amazing.

I have two "failed" marriages, both to very angry, aggressive, controlling men. I have learned so much from both my marriages about what I DID to contribute to the problems.

If either of us held any of our past against any new people, we never would have each found someone who has done an incredible amount of learning and healing, and who is capable of extraordinary depths of mature, fun, easy intimacy at all levels: emotional, spiritual, intellectual, and physical!

We believe that the trick here is that we both *did a lot of healing*, a LOT of work on ourselves, and have a strong spiritual foundation for our relationship and upcoming marriage. (We met at our church/spiritual center, and are on exactly the same track that way, which we never had with any of our previous spouses.)

wow that sounds great I hope the best for you two. I have had a couple of relationships myslef where the guy was controlling and I knew that I didn't want that in the relationship because he tried to tell me who I can and can't be friends with and you I can and can't hang out with and stuff so I left and I'm glad that I did because then he turned into a druggie and very abusive.

good for you for leaving!

My second ex told me he was a better spouse because he was committed to staying in the marriage no matter what...

ewwww... ok so I'm a quitter, but there are some relationships that are so unhealthy that you NEED to quit, it's not some admirable thing to stay.

(Plus, I found out from a friend after we separated that he had cheated on me repeatedly with someone, then lied to me about it for several years!)