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If so, how did you manage to overcome the problem.
I recently separated from my SO after a 12 month relationship. It all started well until I altered SO's way of thinking regarding his daughters horrible treatment of him. They were spoiled, jealous, abusive when they didn't get what they wanted, and toxic to his emotional state. Aided by their BM who then claimed $300.00 per week for child support for the youngest (16). Our relationship fell to pieces because of the 25 years of mental strain he has been carrying around on his back. Instead of working towards a positive future that we could share, he was fixated on the fact that he lost his daughters to their mother who in turn had held an ongoing affair behind SO's back for 10 years WITH HIS OWN UNCLE. Altogether they played happy families and accepted what their mother had done but wouldn't accept me (because I didn't approve of their vindictive and horrid attitudes). He and I broke up 10 days ago when we had a huge argument. I feel like he has taken me on a scenic route through his private history of hell and has made absolutely no effort to fix the issues that burden him; no effort to heal the hate and pain.