What Really Is "Baggage"??? (27)
foxyone1Quesnel BC, British Columbia Canada50 Threads 1,772 PostsOur ideas of baggage are all different,, and that's ok,, baggage to me is,, an ex or exes still hanging out,, especially when there are no kids,, they are friends you might say,, well,, they can have them,, i do not have excess baggage hanging out,, wouldn't expect it from a potential other or dysfunctional problems that have not been dealt with yet and they interfer in one's life,, again,, all our ideas of baggage are different
This sums it up for me......it was said above...
"To me, "baggage" are problems/issues from whatever past relationship which haven't been dealt with. What would stand in the way of a "healthy" new relationship..."
And hey, yes everyone has baggage...it's the people with full sets of LUGGAGE that I have a problem with, when they dive into another relationship right away and drag the other person down!
I just went through this recently!
Kimmer
"To me, "baggage" are problems/issues from whatever past relationship which haven't been dealt with. What would stand in the way of a "healthy" new relationship..."
And hey, yes everyone has baggage...it's the people with full sets of LUGGAGE that I have a problem with, when they dive into another relationship right away and drag the other person down!
I just went through this recently!
Kimmer
Sorry to hear about that Kimmer Yup people that rebound quickly into a new relationship bring much baggage When relationships come to an end for what ever reason there needs to be some time alone to deal with your feelings and emotions Sometimes jumping into a new relationship to soon is like a quick fix bandaid covering a wound to ease the pain ....if deep enough and not cared for it could leave a nasty scar
Sometimes baggage will continue for many years specially when an ex doesn't want to let go and move on.....cause of their only excuse the childrens...........!!!!.....
The key is to let go .... and move on in order to start a new happy,healthy relationship.........
We won't be who we are now if we have never learn from our mistakes and baggage comes with that!!..
Just me two cents!!
The key is to let go .... and move on in order to start a new happy,healthy relationship.........
We won't be who we are now if we have never learn from our mistakes and baggage comes with that!!..
Just me two cents!!
i agree, staying just because of the kids is not always the right chocie or reason.
have i told you i miss you Sweetkitty
have i told you i miss you Sweetkitty
Lilly, couldn't have said it better myself........
Mental Note: good thing I almost always read all the posts before I post....
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