Why do men experience times where they don't want to talk? ( Archived) (37)

Dec 9, 2012 2:17 AM CST Why do men experience times where they don't want to talk?
LeperPariah
LeperPariahLeperPariahIn the Sticks, British Columbia Canada42 Posts
Because the game's on!!! (wait for a whistle)
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Dec 9, 2012 11:38 PM CST Why do men experience times where they don't want to talk?
risingsnare
risingsnarerisingsnareAberdeen, Washington USA17 Posts
There are two types of thinkers in this world; abstract and concrete. Abstract thinkers are in touch with themselves; concrete thinkers don't like to think about those sort of things. So you cannot just generalize, lumping everyone into one category. For me, if I need space, I need space, but if it is someone I care about, I will be kind about it, not just disappear.
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Dec 9, 2012 11:42 PM CST Why do men experience times where they don't want to talk?
Nikogas
NikogasNikogasMetro, Oregon USA46 Threads 5 Polls 4,037 Posts
Yep, we used the terms of linear vs non-linear minded people. those that can not see things any other way then in large generalities and limited room for growth were usually linear minded individuals.
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Dec 9, 2012 11:42 PM CST Why do men experience times where they don't want to talk?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
risingsnare: There are two types of thinkers in this world; abstract and concrete. Abstract thinkers are in touch with themselves; concrete thinkers don't like to think about those sort of things. So you cannot just generalize, lumping everyone into one category. For me, if I need space, I need space, but if it is someone I care about, I will be kind about it, not just disappear.


I agree, women don't realise sometimes men need space, it doesn't mean they don't love them, it just means they are normal males.
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Dec 9, 2012 11:51 PM CST Why do men experience times where they don't want to talk?
Nikogas
NikogasNikogasMetro, Oregon USA46 Threads 5 Polls 4,037 Posts
Usually I am the one that talks too much anyway. WHen I stop talking it can sometimes mean that I have decided no one is listening at the moment anyway.
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Dec 9, 2012 11:53 PM CST Why do men experience times where they don't want to talk?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
You won't find your absolute answers of why a man doesn't feel like talking from reading all those dating and relationship books.

Usually they're written by someone who have never been in a relationship or else like to pigeon hole people into one lump.

Men just like us women are unique and not at all like you might read about in those books you read.

WE all like our space sometimes and just want to spend some time alone.

It's called being understanding and practicing patience.
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Dec 9, 2012 11:57 PM CST Why do men experience times where they don't want to talk?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
Ccincy: You won't find your absolute answers of why a man doesn't feel like talking from reading all those dating and relationship books.

Usually they're written by someone who have never been in a relationship or else like to pigeon hole people into one lump.

Men just like us women are unique and not at all like you might read about in those books you read.

WE all like our space sometimes and just want to spend some time alone.

It's called being understanding and practicing patience.



Exactly so why when men do it they get responses like "you don't love me anymore" yet when women need their space we are just expected to shut up??????
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Dec 10, 2012 12:04 AM CST Why do men experience times where they don't want to talk?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
tomcatwarne: Exactly so why when men do it they get responses like "you don't love me anymore" yet when women need their space we are just expected to shut up??????



I'm one woman who's never played that kind of games so I don't know why some other women do it or say it.

Maybe they want to make the guy feel quilty or something.

dunno
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Dec 10, 2012 12:06 AM CST Why do men experience times where they don't want to talk?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
Ccincy: I'm one woman who's never played that kind of games so I don't know why some other women do it or say it.

Maybe they want to make the guy feel quilty or something.


I didn't mean you C, you are one of the good onesteddybear
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Dec 10, 2012 12:06 AM CST Why do men experience times where they don't want to talk?
shay28
shay28shay28Ha'il,, Saudi Arabia468 Posts
We all need a "ME" time, once in a while.
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Dec 10, 2012 12:08 AM CST Why do men experience times where they don't want to talk?
Bluefish22
Bluefish22Bluefish22Chooksville, Bay of Plenty New Zealand16 Threads 1 Polls 909 Posts
Personally, if a man doesn't feel like talking, I just thank the lord and enjoy Coronation Street in peace for once.
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Dec 10, 2012 12:09 AM CST Why do men experience times where they don't want to talk?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
tomcatwarne: I didn't mean you C, you are one of the good ones



I know you didn't mean me tom.

Just answering your question.teddybear
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Dec 10, 2012 12:16 AM CST Why do men experience times where they don't want to talk?
Bluefish22
Bluefish22Bluefish22Chooksville, Bay of Plenty New Zealand16 Threads 1 Polls 909 Posts
tomcatwarne: HMMM, I wouldn't put that one to the test if I were you. If it is an important game, you might get your way, but afterwards he would resent missing the game


Ohhh you silly! He still gets to watch the game laugh
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Dec 10, 2012 6:56 AM CST Why do men experience times where they don't want to talk?
mijas36
mijas36mijas36Mijas Costa, Andalusia Spain313 Posts
I suffer this problem every time a big match is about to kick off,it usually wears off a few hours later....
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Dec 19, 2012 6:44 AM CST Why do men experience times where they don't want to talk?
eagfly
eagflyeagflyLiege, Belgium8 Threads 5 Polls 44 Posts
aloofness and silence is best than to make someone sad...some people do not wish to toss oneness in real sense , if other can understand
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Dec 19, 2012 7:47 AM CST Why do men experience times where they don't want to talk?
Migsy
MigsyMigsycandelaria quezon, Calabarzon Philippines16 Threads 1,632 Posts
Maybe bcos they dont brush teeth yet:-)
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Dec 19, 2012 7:48 AM CST Why do men experience times where they don't want to talk?
Migsy
MigsyMigsycandelaria quezon, Calabarzon Philippines16 Threads 1,632 Posts
Maybe bcos he dont brush teeth yet:-)
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