Quite possibly. There is a reason people choose online programs such as this one. They are finding those within their reach lacking in some way or another, and the expectation is to find "perfect". Unfortunately, this is highly unrealistic. There is no such thing. But, it does open things up to attract those with qualities you both possess, hoping to make that connection. I think some people have unrealistically high expectations, but others, are just looking for compatibility. That is a hard thing to find without the world of the web.
Feb 6, 2014 1:29 PM CST Do you have unrealistic expectations in your search for a partner ?
Bspoken4My forest, Western Cape South Africa636 Posts
Bspoken4My forest, Western Cape South Africa636 posts
Bspoken4: One of the best posts I read here (from picture thread, methinks) was:- "Too many of us focus on finding the perfect partner when we should focus on perfecting ourselves..." or something to that effect!
There's a world of wisdom somewhere in there...because I believe that in constantly uplifting & reshaping our values, morals, hopes, optimism and character - we would then draw the ideal partner to ourselves. The Universe always answers...however not in the timeframe, you desire.
Long winded explanation there old chap!
More succinctly penned by Ralph Waldo Emerson
"Though we travel the world over to find the beautiful, we must carry it with us or we find it not."
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