what was it like for most of you when you started dating again after seperation, divorce, or major relationship. i've been off the market for about five years and when i first started getting out there again, it was actually a bit of a shock.... and i don't think i was ready then, so i've cleared some things up in my head and ready to move forward, now. i've never rebounded, ever... i seem to be able to keep my wits about me which i think is good.... so i was just wondering how you all have handled it in the past.
duce1969fraziers bottom, West Virginia USA610 posts
its kinda scary and ive been a ball of nerves but i know im ready to move on when i can now talk to my ex an not get mad an my feelings i once had is gone an been gone for awhile
well i havnt had a girlfriend for just over 6 years. i found this site on accident and my god am i so glad i did. ive never been in a proper relationship so i cant really tell you how i handled it cos i dont any different. ill be honest i really like a woman off here and just the thought of being able to go and be with her gets me both excited and nervous.
well i definitely know what you mean, i seen my ex today and talked with him a bit on the phone and i felt nothing for him, just sad for what all has happened and a bit angry about the situation, but not at him, and it's been that way for awhile i always do my best to hold things together, i don't believe in giving up easily, but i feel so much more confident in myself after today.
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