PanthersKissOPMiddlesex County, Massachusetts USA967 posts
1.Has anybody gain weight from all the fattening foods at the holiday parties? ....I have, a whole 10 pounds, no more parties for me
2.When a man writes in his profile that he wants a slim, average woman, or a white woman or both, why do they contact a woman like me?
*I don't want this answer to be about me*, it's a general question I like a man to honestly answer.
I have been told they make an exception for someone like me, they think it's a compliment, I find it degrading-since I am the exception- In my main pic right here, I was 40 pounds heavier than now, but I am not ashamed to use the pic.
Again I am telling you my thoughts about me as an exmple and nothing else...do not rate me...
Just give me a general opinion on your thoughts...Merry Christmas my friends
i dont understand it either Angel..Or when they answer ANY to questions about their match..Why lie if you know what you want then say it..period no excuses no lies no regrets..thats about all the insight i can muster up right now.. glad today is almost over with..
as for your questions..omg im not going near a scale for at least a week after today gives me a chance to kncok off a few of the pounds i put on..I ate so many cookies the other night while chatting with some CS friends I thought I would burst so Im sure thats at least 5 lbs and dinner tonight another 5 good grief...ok Im rambling now...BYE
you're somehow right, although guys want to use it as a compliment the meant person doesn't feel well about. I also gain weight during the last two days, don't know how much, but I better not know and tomorrow there will be another one as it's the last christmas days, afterwards i will put myself on diet to get my weight which i had before christmas. don't feel well with my belly by the way think you look pretty good on your picture
PanthersKissOPMiddlesex County, Massachusetts USA967 posts
Thanks Michael, and you are right, the answers in the basics are not set in stone..and a man can find someone else attractive, it is the remarks "you are an exception" the way I see it, is like this ...just an example, I am of European heritage. I am too light to be seen as black, and too dark to be white...they see my heritage...they would not date a darker woman, so I am the "exception"..does that mean that someone like me is like a middle ground?...they cross over to a certain limit.
PS:This comment is not intended to start a racial conflict, or weight issue...it was just a question that's been sitting in my mind, as I see who approaches me, and from talking to other women.
You are funny with your weight answer...at least you know your clothes be fitting every week. Before I had kids I never gain weight....
you are a human being just like anyone else you deserve to me love likes anyone else true love has nothing to do with the physical being
but true love has to do with the soul of the person for true unconditional love lays on the inside there is nothing on nor about the outside that has to do with true love
for true love only sees the person on the inside true love sees what the eyes cannot see true love sees the true person and not the person on the outside for true love accpets the person as they are true love accpets the person as they are true love does not try to change the person true love only accpets the person as they are and for who they are
if someone puts conditions on their love than it is not true love for there is no conditions on true love for true love is unconditional
when you can find someone who loves you for the person you are on the inside than you have found true love
"*I don't want this answer to be about me*, it's a general question I like a man to honestly answer."
I dont belive any question is general and I know why men contact women not suited to there taste... Your personality honey that is golden and It draws people too you if you didnt notice looks are secondary in this case.
Oh belive me I know what you mean Its not difficult to read between the lines of your conundrum and see that "isnt life wonderful so many choices so many options it is sometimes overwhelming *persevere* in all your endevorse now and tomorrow you and a true Gem. Bless You
1: I haven't gained weight only because I dance a minimum of 2 nights a week for 4 hours each.
2. Guys contact you for the same reason they contact me when they're only 5'8" tall and ask me to dance with them. I'm 6' tall in my bare feet. How in the world can I dance with someone that short? Short guys are always saying they don't care if I'm tall. I care if I'm taller than them and look like a giant dancing with them.
People don't read and don't think about how others might feel is the answer to your question.
PanthersKissOPMiddlesex County, Massachusetts USA967 posts
You made a good point, people don't read or think sometimes, but it has happen offline too.
This question can be percieved in so many different ways, that there is not one answer for it, but perhaps many.
I cannot answer it for myself, or my friends that have similar experiences, I could draw a conclusion as to why, but it would be unfair I guess, to think in just one mindset.
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2.When a man writes in his profile that he wants a slim, average woman, or a white woman or both, why do they contact a woman like me?
*I don't want this answer to be about me*, it's a general question I like a man to honestly answer.
I have been told they make an exception for someone like me, they think it's a compliment, I find it degrading-since I am the exception-
In my main pic right here, I was 40 pounds heavier than now, but I am not ashamed to use the pic.
Again I am telling you my thoughts about me as an exmple and nothing else...do not rate me...
Just give me a general opinion on your thoughts...Merry Christmas my friends
Angel