Why do we hurt the ones we love? (2)
kandiekane50ashland, USA48 Threads 195 PostsI just hurt the most important person in my life besides my kids. I thought I was being a friend but I messed up things real bad for him. I didn't hurt him on purpose but in a round about way I am to blame. I keep asking myself why. My heart aches for this person. And there is nothing I can do to take away the pain. How can you come to terms with yourself when you hurt someone and there is nothing you can do to fix it because it is beyond your control?
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Accept that you are human and you didn't intentionally try to hurt him. It is good to forgive others and it is good to forgive yourself. If you can forgive others than you can forgive yourself. You accept blame now accept forgiveness. You tried to do the right thing is what is most important. To feel hurt is part of being human. We stumble, we fall, we pull ourselves up and dust ourselves off. Then we walk again with a lesson learned that we will not forget soon. When it is beyond your control pray for them. Ask God to do for them what you could not. To err is human to forgive is divine. :)
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