I had a horrible broken heart once (24)
ah never just settle! You'd surprised the "real" deal is probably looking for you!
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I've had the real deal a few times to painful. but ty
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It is enlightening when we start to make a distinction between what we really want and what we really need
They are not one and the same thing
They are not one and the same thing
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Yes I'm very enlightened.
oh ya
oh ya
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and you call ME cynical.
every relationship, every dealing...take the positive from it. each one is separate, no two men alike...you'll never be in exactly the same situation.
you're smart, funny, beautiful...witty...and surely somewhere, if that is what you want, there's a man that will stand by you.
and even if he doesn't...take the good from that, as well.
every relationship, every dealing...take the positive from it. each one is separate, no two men alike...you'll never be in exactly the same situation.
you're smart, funny, beautiful...witty...and surely somewhere, if that is what you want, there's a man that will stand by you.
and even if he doesn't...take the good from that, as well.
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Well said!!!
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I found one that I thought was my soul mate, but I found him when I was only 20. I thought nah, he couldnt be the one...not right away like this. I ended up dumping him before my very 1st open heart, because "i couldnt handle the stress" No we dont speak and I never see him, but I think there is still a soul mate out there for me, and this time nothing will make us crumble.
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Broken heart? Oh yes and the last one was hopefully just that. That one was the worst and damn neer took a year to get over it...I would rather get hit upside the head with a shovel than to go through that again! 
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now wait a minute Lori?
I don't want the pain so for me it's easier to have a buddie more so then a real love.
Being cynical?
Hmmmm I think I just don't want the pain.
people who are usually" cynical don't know
that their that way cuz they have been hurt.
Am I making sense here.............plthththtth
I've been married a couple times I loved it.
I'm just weary not cynical. ya think?
I don't want the pain so for me it's easier to have a buddie more so then a real love.
Being cynical?
Hmmmm I think I just don't want the pain.
people who are usually" cynical don't know
that their that way cuz they have been hurt.
Am I making sense here.............plthththtth
I've been married a couple times I loved it.
I'm just weary not cynical. ya think?
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seeeeeeeeeeeeee Lori?
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oh shut up
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okay, not cynical.
but it's still not fair to be scared...unless you are talking of being with the same man. each one is...so different...
your first post didn't sound weary, so much...but yes, i understand.
but it's still not fair to be scared...unless you are talking of being with the same man. each one is...so different...
your first post didn't sound weary, so much...but yes, i understand.
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you are my mentor. You are Lori right?
what the h*** is your name.
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I'm not scared just tired. wore out. You don't even date? i'll pay for the sitter dammit
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well I'm not settling to much if does everything he's told right?
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lol, i don't date...yes, i'm lori...
my lack of dating isn't because i'm cynical, or tired...it's because i'm just waaaay too busy.
i have three kids at home, two are special needs...between them, work, and school, it's just not feasible. i don't trust many people with raegan, and i'm not introducing men to my kids.
it's a non-issue...i'm perfectly happy single.
my lack of dating isn't because i'm cynical, or tired...it's because i'm just waaaay too busy.
i have three kids at home, two are special needs...between them, work, and school, it's just not feasible. i don't trust many people with raegan, and i'm not introducing men to my kids.
it's a non-issue...i'm perfectly happy single.
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i don't believe ya
Lori
Lori
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we are all lonely humans are not created to be alone...
everyone needs to be touched and made love to emotionally or phyically.
soooooooooooooooooooooooooo
everyone needs to be touched and made love to emotionally or phyically.
soooooooooooooooooooooooooo
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really, i'm perfectly happy.
and if i need physical touch...i have beautiful children that are more than willing to climb up in my lap and give me a great big hug.
my happiness is internal, i don't need anyone else for it to exist.
and if i need physical touch...i have beautiful children that are more than willing to climb up in my lap and give me a great big hug.
my happiness is internal, i don't need anyone else for it to exist.
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don't know if I ever want to feel that kind of love again.
So I may never look for what I really want.
It's easier isn't it?
To settle, instead of the real thing?