My younger sister is dying she was told she has only a few weeks to live. Coby lives in the US, in a home, but now is in hospice This is what I don’t understand. The doctor found a large bruise on her breast and concluded that she had advance breast cancer. No mammogram was taken. Coby has not had a mammogram for years, perhaps never......... What I also find very strange is that she has no pain what so ever. Is this possible to have advance breast cancer not know it and have no pain all this time? Second her heart is very weak that is most likely what will cause the end or both? Coby has friends who take care of her and report to us............. She does not want any one of us to come and see her............. I am the oldest of six, my second sister smoked and worked with asbestos. bad combination My only brother died of a heart attack and Coby is number three to go. I have two younger sisters left they both live in Holland The youngest is a heavy smoker and will not stop as she cares more about not getting fat. The other sisters health is not the best, both are ten-12 years younger than I am Both my parents are dead, my mom died at 94 years old of an aneurysm, she never knew what hit her what a blessing. My dad died at 62 of long cancer. Both families are wiped out, no one is left it sure feels weird for sure[/quote I am only replying to u as a lady who can feel your pain and sadness over this. Being a Believer myself, I know that our eternity will be glorious. So I hope your sis is accepting of what will be. No words I write can make it all better, please know if you ever want to conversate in message, I will be glad to be there. My thoughts for you are that you will accept what will be and in your time be able to heal. Peace be yours.
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Coby lives in the US, in a home, but now is in hospice
This is what I don’t understand.
The doctor found a large bruise on her breast and concluded that she had
advance breast cancer. No mammogram was taken.
Coby has not had a mammogram for years, perhaps never.........
What I also find very strange is that she has no pain what so ever.
Is this possible to have advance breast cancer not know it and have no pain all this time?
Second her heart is very weak that is most likely what will cause the end or both?
Coby has friends who take care of her and report to us.............
She does not want any one of us to come and see her.............
I am the oldest of six, my second sister smoked and worked with asbestos. bad combination
My only brother died of a heart attack and Coby is number three to go.
I have two younger sisters left they both live in Holland
The youngest is a heavy smoker and will not stop as she cares more about not getting fat.
The other sisters health is not the best, both are ten-12 years younger than I am
Both my parents are dead, my mom died at 94 years old of an aneurysm, she never knew what hit her
what a blessing. My dad died at 62 of long cancer.
Both families are wiped out, no one is left it sure feels weird for sure[/quote
I am only replying to u as a lady who can feel your pain and sadness over this. Being a Believer myself, I know that our eternity will be glorious. So I hope your sis is accepting of what will be.
No words I write can make it all better, please know if you ever want to conversate in message, I will be glad to be there. My thoughts for you are that you will accept what will be and in your time be able to heal.