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Jan 10, 2007 2:36 PM CST need advise on upcoming physical placement battle.
WhiteAsh
WhiteAshWhiteAshTurtle Lake, Wisconsin USA7 Threads 688 Posts
I am currently seeking physical placement of my 3rd son. Two of the triplets live with me, one with his father. My friends at work say I need to list everything that has happened since the day I moved out.
I also have to consider their ages, as they are 15.

A little backround info...
I moved out with the boys April 2006. I moved into the basement of my parents house. I was working part-time. I now work full time and I have insurance on all the boys. I also have my own apartment and have lived here 2 months. My parents barrowed me the money to file for divorce, and I had to take him to court to get child support. This became effective in Oct..
He has never once called the boys. The only reason the 2 that live with me ever see him is because, I used to encourage them to go. I stopped doing it now, as the last time they went over it only lasted about 20 minutes. One came home crying. Neither one of them have a bed in his house. Did pay child support 2 months..Then lost his job, now he is taking me back to court for lower child support.
Money is not the issue. I currently work OT to make and meet and will continue to do so. I am wondering what is my best strategy to get my 3rd son.
Any advice will be appreciated.
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Jan 10, 2007 2:39 PM CST need advise on upcoming physical placement battle.
nfowler
nfowlernfowlernowhere, Washington USA89 Threads 2,634 Posts
GET A LAWYERconfused
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Jan 10, 2007 2:52 PM CST need advise on upcoming physical placement battle.
WhiteAsh
WhiteAshWhiteAshTurtle Lake, Wisconsin USA7 Threads 688 Posts
I have one..
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Jan 10, 2007 4:05 PM CST need advise on upcoming physical placement battle.
swordjain
swordjainswordjainOlean, New York USA15 Threads 213 Posts
If he doesnt have the things kids need like beds this shouldnt even be hard in ny u must beable to support them in a;lll area's
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Jan 10, 2007 4:14 PM CST need advise on upcoming physical placement battle.
WhiteAsh
WhiteAshWhiteAshTurtle Lake, Wisconsin USA7 Threads 688 Posts
Thank you for the response. No, he does not see 2 of them only the one. Good thinking, he cannot support them all. Maybe, I worry too much?
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Jan 10, 2007 5:38 PM CST need advise on upcoming physical placement battle.
Algarion
AlgarionAlgarionPatras, West Greece Greece183 Threads 2,961 Posts
You mean how to get your 3rd child under your supervision?
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Jan 10, 2007 5:45 PM CST need advise on upcoming physical placement battle.
WhiteAsh
WhiteAshWhiteAshTurtle Lake, Wisconsin USA7 Threads 688 Posts
yes, physical placement means he would live in my apartment. I would still let him have joint custody, if he chooses to see his kids.
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Jan 10, 2007 6:02 PM CST need advise on upcoming physical placement battle.
Algarion
AlgarionAlgarionPatras, West Greece Greece183 Threads 2,961 Posts
Well is it good for your kids to see him? I mean does he love his children? Is he a good father?
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Jan 10, 2007 6:19 PM CST need advise on upcoming physical placement battle.
WhiteAsh
WhiteAshWhiteAshTurtle Lake, Wisconsin USA7 Threads 688 Posts
You would have to ask him if he loves them. Not calling the 2 here for 9 months. I do not know. I have encouraged the boys to see him...and take them to his house. But after the last time, one came home crying.. I no longer encourage them to go. ( He was gone 20 minutes}
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