WHY,, Are we the last to know??? ( Archived) (8)

Jan 11, 2007 5:47 PM CST WHY,, Are we the last to know???
seekmate
seekmateseekmatesmyrna, Tennessee USA3 Threads 10 Posts
when being cheated on? My friends(??) say they didn't want to be the one to tell me????? I senced, some thing was going on, but was told it wasn't...got a divorce ( many years ago) and they(she and my Best? friend) got married less, than a year after the divorce..confused dunno
well, as time passes, they are now divorced, and she is with another friend of his..scold

I find it funny now, cause, I told him, one day she will do the same to him...
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Jan 11, 2007 6:00 PM CST WHY,, Are we the last to know???
40yearoldvirgin
40yearoldvirgin40yearoldvirginBurlington, Vermont USA2 Threads 169 Posts
What goes around comes around. How long were you married?
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Jan 11, 2007 6:00 PM CST WHY,, Are we the last to know???
dancingfarmer
dancingfarmerdancingfarmerColumbia, Connecticut USA41 Threads 752 Posts
I was the last to know. Everyone in town knew. I made a surprise trip to our cabin up north and guess who was there with him! It was horrible because when confronted he lied and said she was his buddies girlfriend and she left with the buddy. Month's later I found my 2 year old sitting on his potty chair "reading" a note he found. A note to his father from that same bimbo.

All I can say is I wish someone would of had the guts to tell me.
doh
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Jan 11, 2007 6:03 PM CST WHY,, Are we the last to know???
nfowler
nfowlernfowlernowhere, Washington USA89 Threads 2,634 Posts
Most of the time, the truth is that we don't want to know the truth. We lie to ourselves and hope for the best. Nobody tells us because chances are you wont believe them anyway.
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Jan 11, 2007 6:06 PM CST WHY,, Are we the last to know???
seekmate
seekmateseekmatesmyrna, Tennessee USA3 Threads 10 Posts
was married 12 years, I would ask people, but they would rather lie to me...confused
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Jan 11, 2007 6:15 PM CST WHY,, Are we the last to know???
blancalatina
blancalatinablancalatinawinston-salem, USA42 Threads 3,315 Posts
Been there done that. Have the tee shirt...burned it.

We are the last to know...since we're not the "other" person to be the first!

Friends don't tell...but I always suspected. It's ignoring that "instinct" that got me hurt.
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Jan 11, 2007 6:26 PM CST WHY,, Are we the last to know???
yep sometimessigh
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Jan 11, 2007 7:00 PM CST WHY,, Are we the last to know???
40yearoldvirgin
40yearoldvirgin40yearoldvirginBurlington, Vermont USA2 Threads 169 Posts
I guess that's why PIs do such good business. It looks like it is better to hire one of them if you suspect, rather than asking friends.
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