I can't speak for the women, but as a man this what I encountered in LESS than a week. 1. Obviously scammers. Young hot things that immediately want to move somewhere else to talk. I'm going to assume that many of you have student debt or maxed out credit and really need that cash fast. For the older ones most likely aging out of the dating scene, underwater on the mortgage or car payments and very deep in debt. 2. The crazies. Within three days I had one tell me she would be up for a polygamous relationship. And a number that well you know each has their own demon. 3, In a rush to get to know you. A good relationship takes time to build. It starts with maybe developing a friendship first, then if it never goes further at least you have a friend. 4. Working on the fine points. face it no one is a hundred percent match. Emo Phillips has a religion skit which illustrates this in a humorous way.
Obviously most people will never go to such absurd lengths and honestly everyone hides something until you live together. Farting way too much, picking your nose, not bathing for a couple of days, not caring if your clothing has recent food stains, not knowing how to cook or budget, getting fat because you can. Isn't that why people get divorced? A few years ago I read a Reddit thread where some recently married man was complaining his wife had put on a few pounds. Posters were claiming she may be suffering depression, or improper diet and other absurdities. No one bothered to state the obvious, she caught her man and just didn't need to starve herself into some false marketed image of the perfect woman.
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1. Obviously scammers. Young hot things that immediately want to move somewhere else to talk.
I'm going to assume that many of you have student debt or maxed out credit and really need that cash fast. For the older ones most likely aging out of the dating scene, underwater on the mortgage or car payments and very deep in debt.
2. The crazies. Within three days I had one tell me she would be up for a polygamous relationship.
And a number that well you know each has their own demon.
3, In a rush to get to know you. A good relationship takes time to build. It starts with maybe developing a friendship first, then if it never goes further at least you have a friend.
4. Working on the fine points. face it no one is a hundred percent match. Emo Phillips has a religion skit which illustrates this in a humorous way.
Obviously most people will never go to such absurd lengths and honestly everyone hides something until you live together. Farting way too much, picking your nose, not bathing for a couple of days, not caring if your clothing has recent food stains, not knowing how to cook or budget, getting fat because you can.
Isn't that why people get divorced?
A few years ago I read a Reddit thread where some recently married man was complaining his wife had put on a few pounds. Posters were claiming she may be suffering depression, or improper diet and other absurdities.
No one bothered to state the obvious, she caught her man and just didn't need to starve herself into some false marketed image of the perfect woman.