Well, im a single mom and i have cme to very recently finding out that men do want the same thing most woman want, a loving caring and most important honest relationship, now you will come across the ones who want the "thing" but single men often feel the void like we do. so lets give them the opertunitty to give us what we want,
All comedy aside, I want someone I can share life with, all the ups and downs with everything in between. I've been single for so long, 10 years, I barely remember what it's like to have someone to do things with
It is true that it is is right to give what you would want back and do. Sometimes though people like that are taken advantage of too. Anybody who truly cares is going to be the same way as you feel. ????
You don't always get 100% back all the time.. It is unrealistic to think that. There are times they need more than we do, and vice versa...That is the give and take, and should be what it is...If your partner is hurting, or need support, then you offer that unconditionally. Should go both ways. There should never be a payback, ever. If you both understand that...in the midst of it all even more respect and love is achieved...
OMG jackie I have a huge craving for pizza right now, heh heh...yes ,the food...and other stuff:P LMAO
Umm, I'm really new to te dating thing, hon. I just put down what I feel is important or ideas. I'm a single Mom now, too. And, have yet to see a real deal pan out. I just keep making freinds here, and that's great ting. Alot of folk here have more experience than I do. I do have my beliefs in things to hold onto though...Hang in there. Look forward to seeing you around:)
ive been divorced for over year now, and i can tell you i have had problems keeping the man, not meeting them but keeping them, i know he will come eventually, but until then i guess i will keep trying and looking. ill be around.
cutelildevilsmomportsmouth, New Hampshire USA7,772 posts
I dont know if you meant me or not but I have trouble meeting men too because lets face it,raising our kids is a full time job.To top it off I work, do all the domestic chores etc.I have gone on a couple dates but they didnt seem to understand I have to plan ahead to get a night out.My son is five and needs a babysitter.duh. My philosophy on the whole thing is if i get a date great,if not no big deal at least i've got my health.
i know the feeling, it does sux, mine are 2 and 4 both boys, and they keep me busy. alot of men dont understand it. but atleast we have each other on here to talk about this with
My kids are teens, so it is abit easier, although my son had big problem that make it almost unbearable at times... It does suck. But, i think for guys it does too,,,,
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