What does he reallt want???? ( Archived) (28)

Sep 26, 2005 10:44 PM CST What does he reallt want????
almostthere
almosttherealmosttherelocust grove, USA3 Threads 23 Posts
Well, im a single mom and i have cme to very recently finding out that men do want the same thing most woman want, a loving caring and most important honest relationship, now you will come across the ones who want the "thing" but single men often feel the void like we do. so lets give them the opertunitty to give us what we want,
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Sep 26, 2005 10:54 PM CST What does he reallt want????
kandiekane50
kandiekane50kandiekane50ashland, USA48 Threads 195 Posts
I think i am pretty open to your views as well. There are some wonderful men out there.
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Sep 26, 2005 10:56 PM CST What does he reallt want????
almostthere
almosttherealmosttherelocust grove, USA3 Threads 23 Posts
the sad part is its taken me long enough to figure it out
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Sep 27, 2005 3:09 PM CST What does he reallt want????
RainbowSlider
RainbowSliderRainbowSliderYellville, USA171 Threads 7,174 Posts
I really want a someone for me. A someone has all that I need.
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Sep 27, 2005 5:20 PM CST What does he reallt want????
Raynew
RaynewRaynewConcord, North Carolina USA99 Threads 2,400 Posts
Most of the time I don't know what I want :D

All comedy aside, I want someone I can share life with, all the ups and downs with everything in between. I've been single for so long, 10 years, I barely remember what it's like to have someone to do things with
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Sep 27, 2005 7:49 PM CST What does he reallt want????
Lionhearted1967
Lionhearted1967Lionhearted1967London, Ontario Canada143 Threads 10 Polls 9,887 Posts
So true almostthere sometimes it takes a while to learn but at least you know now! Sometimes I think it is a matter of learning to recognise them.
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Sep 27, 2005 8:20 PM CST What does he reallt want????
almostthere
almosttherealmosttherelocust grove, USA3 Threads 23 Posts
i beleive you have to give what you want to get back, and its just being who you are, and the person will reconise that and want to do the same.
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Sep 28, 2005 8:27 AM CST What does he reallt want????
Lionhearted1967
Lionhearted1967Lionhearted1967London, Ontario Canada143 Threads 10 Polls 9,887 Posts
It is true that it is is right to give what you would want back and do. Sometimes though people like that are taken advantage of too. Anybody who truly cares is going to be the same way as you feel. ????
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Sep 28, 2005 8:37 AM CST What does he reallt want????
TabooN
TabooNTabooNClaremont, USA47 Threads 12,843 Posts
You don't always get 100% back all the time.. It is unrealistic to think that.
There are times they need more than we do, and vice versa...That is the give and take, and should be what it is...If your partner is hurting, or need support, then you offer that unconditionally. Should go both ways. There should never be a payback, ever. If you both understand that...in the midst of it all even more respect and love is achieved...

just a thought:)
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Sep 28, 2005 7:43 PM CST What does he reallt want????
almostthere
almosttherealmosttherelocust grove, USA3 Threads 23 Posts
this is very true. good thought
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Sep 28, 2005 8:07 PM CST What does he reallt want????
TabooN
TabooNTabooNClaremont, USA47 Threads 12,843 Posts
thanks:)
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Sep 28, 2005 8:10 PM CST What does he reallt want????
cutelildevilsmom
cutelildevilsmomcutelildevilsmomportsmouth, New Hampshire USA60 Threads 7,772 Posts
i want a pizza.if the delivery boy comes with it all the better,lol
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Sep 28, 2005 8:13 PM CST What does he reallt want????
almostthere
almosttherealmosttherelocust grove, USA3 Threads 23 Posts
you seem like you know your stuff. if you have any suggests. on dating than i would love to know. im a single mom and have problems meeting men.
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Sep 28, 2005 8:18 PM CST What does he reallt want????
TabooN
TabooNTabooNClaremont, USA47 Threads 12,843 Posts
OMG jackie I have a huge craving for pizza right now, heh heh...yes ,the food...and other stuff:P LMAO

Umm, I'm really new to te dating thing, hon. I just put down what I feel is important or ideas. I'm a single Mom now, too. And, have yet to see a real deal pan out. I just keep making freinds here, and that's great ting. Alot of folk here have more experience than I do. I do have my beliefs in things to hold onto though...Hang in there. Look forward to seeing you around:)
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Sep 28, 2005 8:23 PM CST What does he reallt want????
almostthere
almosttherealmosttherelocust grove, USA3 Threads 23 Posts
ive been divorced for over year now, and i can tell you i have had problems keeping the man, not meeting them but keeping them, i know he will come eventually, but until then i guess i will keep trying and looking. ill be around.
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Sep 28, 2005 8:23 PM CST What does he reallt want????
cutelildevilsmom
cutelildevilsmomcutelildevilsmomportsmouth, New Hampshire USA60 Threads 7,772 Posts
I dont know if you meant me or not but I have trouble meeting men too because lets face it,raising our kids is a full time job.To top it off I work, do all the domestic chores etc.I have gone on a couple dates but they didnt seem to understand I have to plan ahead to get a night out.My son is five and needs a babysitter.duh. My philosophy on the whole thing is if i get a date great,if not no big deal at least i've got my health.
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Sep 28, 2005 8:34 PM CST What does he reallt want????
almostthere
almosttherealmosttherelocust grove, USA3 Threads 23 Posts
i know the feeling, it does sux, mine are 2 and 4 both boys, and they keep me busy. alot of men dont understand it. but atleast we have each other on here to talk about this with
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Sep 28, 2005 8:46 PM CST What does he reallt want????
TabooN
TabooNTabooNClaremont, USA47 Threads 12,843 Posts
I am glad you feel okay here, hon.

My kids are teens, so it is abit easier, although my son had big problem that make it almost unbearable at times...
It does suck. But, i think for guys it does too,,,,

Nice meeting you. Dunno your name, lol. Sorry.
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Sep 28, 2005 8:47 PM CST What does he reallt want????
cutelildevilsmom
cutelildevilsmomcutelildevilsmomportsmouth, New Hampshire USA60 Threads 7,772 Posts
yes.it helps to know that we single parents have the same issues.i would love to hear the single dad's views..
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Sep 28, 2005 8:54 PM CST What does he reallt want????
almostthere
almosttherealmosttherelocust grove, USA3 Threads 23 Posts
probl. the same as ours. i would think so.
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