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lovegirl3San Bernardino, California USA23 Threads 149 PostsOk, I really need your honest opinions about my problem. See my problem isnt that Im lonely or desprate to find a guy, my problem is that I have too many! Now I know alot of u dont see this as a problem, but it is. This one guy I met online (not here), and things seem to be going well between us, We like the same shows, can talk for hours, both are very family oriented........but sometimes I wonder if things are going too fast....he has already started talking about spending the rest of our lives together, and its only been 2 weeks! 
Then my friend wants to set me up wit her friend who is apparently well off financially, tall, and very caring. And then there is this other gu who I have had a crush on for a long time. What do I do?
Then my friend wants to set me up wit her friend who is apparently well off financially, tall, and very caring. And then there is this other gu who I have had a crush on for a long time. What do I do?Oh yeah, and my ex bf wants to get back with me 
You are a very attractive young lady and I am pretty sure a lot of men on this site would like to hook up with you. Just be honest and make it clear that you want to be friends with them and get to know them better first before going into more serious relationship. That would make your life simlier and less stressful. 
Awww thanx sweetie......I thought I was making it pretty clear, but I think u r right.....I need to make it really obvious.
See my post on your other thread in the other forums. I think you can benefit from it.
2 week Boy....whoooaaaaa Nelly...but if the convo is smooth and he doesn't start getting too clingy (how far away?)
Go on the date..tall and caring is promising, right? Money has nothing to do with anything.....but it doesn't hurt.
There's a reason why they call it a "crush"
Ex-Boyfriend - c'mon
Go on the date..tall and caring is promising, right? Money has nothing to do with anything.....but it doesn't hurt.
There's a reason why they call it a "crush"
Ex-Boyfriend - c'mon
Listen to what your heart tells you. If it feels right, it probably is. If you seem to be getting along well with the guy you met online, I say go with it. Just talk to him about your concerns. I am sure he will understand. Tell him you would like to take things a little slower.
Look you're 19yrs for God-sakes! My word of advice. What's the rush? Go out, have fun. Find out who they really are, and make your decision. Just do one thing . . . let each one of them know that you're dating other dudes, and they're not exclusive. Young dudes tend to play games, that's the last thing you need.
Good-Luck
Good-Luck
Dilemmas dilemmas.
How seriously is he talking about long term? I'm an optimist...and my sole purpose in dating, is long term, so after 2 weeks, I may make "long term plans" in the sense...if there is something 4 or 5 months down the road that I need a date for...I'll invite her. It's the realization that it's not carved in stone...so if things happen...I fly solo...no problem. But I guess...if he's actually talking that long term...that's kinda...well, I think some people that are online have never really dated before, so they come in with different expectations...that's something you gotta think about.
Go with the crush! "Financially stable" meh! If there are no sparks there...go for the crush.
How seriously is he talking about long term? I'm an optimist...and my sole purpose in dating, is long term, so after 2 weeks, I may make "long term plans" in the sense...if there is something 4 or 5 months down the road that I need a date for...I'll invite her. It's the realization that it's not carved in stone...so if things happen...I fly solo...no problem. But I guess...if he's actually talking that long term...that's kinda...well, I think some people that are online have never really dated before, so they come in with different expectations...that's something you gotta think about.
Go with the crush! "Financially stable" meh! If there are no sparks there...go for the crush.
live it up!!!
Well that's something only you can decide for yourself however, you say you've liked someone for the longest time? If that is so then how well do you and him get along? Do you guys have some things similar to one another? Your likes and dislikes? Could you see yourself being around him or being with him in that way at all?
About the guy you met offline, I know sometimes those type of relationships do work out so yours might but talking about marriage after only a couple of weeks is a little too fast, let him know to slow things down a bit that way you two could spend many days getting to know one another's quirks and what not, make sure he is really right for you.
And about your ex, before making that decision think about what it was like when you two were going out. How well or bad did he treat you, did you enjoy the time you two spent with one another, does he get along with your family and friends, what was the reason you two broke up, things like that cause if you two broke up for a good reason other than you two wanted to try other things than maybe it is worth it but just think about those. Good luck on everything.
About the guy you met offline, I know sometimes those type of relationships do work out so yours might but talking about marriage after only a couple of weeks is a little too fast, let him know to slow things down a bit that way you two could spend many days getting to know one another's quirks and what not, make sure he is really right for you.
And about your ex, before making that decision think about what it was like when you two were going out. How well or bad did he treat you, did you enjoy the time you two spent with one another, does he get along with your family and friends, what was the reason you two broke up, things like that cause if you two broke up for a good reason other than you two wanted to try other things than maybe it is worth it but just think about those. Good luck on everything.
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