wrell now that is an easy one.I have profiles on many sites and i have yet to get any real mail much less dates.Go figure,But I have hope there is one out there that will like me for just me and you will find that one also that will like you.It just takes time
Have'nt really been on this site long enough to have any date's. I have been on the site long enough to know there are some very intelligent people here whom I admire for thier honesty.
I've turned a couple down, and intend very soon to meet with one special person. There are a lot of honest, truly interesting people on this site, and I am glad I found it! It makes the day a lot more stimulating (just don't tell my boss what I really do all day!) ;) I hope when I do meet someone he is who he says he is! But I am optimistic.
I aslo have met a very specail person on here. That I hope to meet very soon also. I have not had any dates on from here. But I did meet my x wife on a dating service. But things did not work out. But I am here to say. That there is very nice peaple on here and I honestly beleave I have met the lady that I have been searcging for on here. I can not waght to meet her and see what happens in person. But how I see it. Is that know madder what we can never have to many friends in our life.
True, one can never have TOO MANY friends. Could you keep us posted on what happens when you meet in person? Actually, there's another thread topic..... ~arabella~
You know I really wonder about the success of a dating site.I have had profiles on as many as 8 sites for 2 years and I have yet to get a date,In fact 99% of my e/mails go unanswered and I would say that about 80% never get read.Then when I do meet a person who is so cool it defy's the imagination they split.This has happened a few times.I think that the fear of getting hurt is so strong that it is almost impossible to find a soulmate this way.In the end I think a person would fair better in real life meeting.This is so sad tho,how can a person ever expect to get enything out of life by hiding under the bed.One day I will find a woman who is not motivated by fear and instead will be motivated by the desire to see what lies over the next hill.Live life,love life,explore life,embract the unknown for the wisdom and memories gained.No fear and no regrets.
Ya Thephoenix777, I would have to say well put. I think your luck is pretty much like mine. I have tried several sites and have yet to meet anyone. The only ones that seem of any interest are like 400lbs's or they refuse to send a photo. I had this one chick snap on me because I asked for a photo, she's telling me how shallow I am, hugh ! Whats the first thing that happens when you hook up with someone, usually you see them, and think wow she's pretty nice looking, then you go from there. Ya this online dating stuff is not as good as you would think, I don't know maybe some bad stuff has happend to alot of women with online dating. Well I know I am good people, someone will realize it one day. Hey good luck bro! LS
Well I am happy to say that I only joined my first online site at the end of March and already I have plans to meet someone this weekend. I think too many people hide behind their computer, unsure of themselves and afraid to let someone they have never met know the real them.
The person I'm meeting has (I think) been honest with me and what's it going to hurt to actually meet face to face. He's seen my photos as I have seen his, unless there fakes we both know who to expect at the meeting place and work on the getting to know each other over time.
Love starts with friendship and to get to that you have to find out if theres spark!!!!!!!!! No sense in typing away on a screen lettin the spark smolder!!!!!
So guess my unacredited words of wisdom would be "what do you have to loose, and maybe there's something to gain from taking a chance.
I haven`t had 1 date on this site yet..If it ment to be i`ts ment to be tho..It seems u ought to know who your really go out with or getting together with and this site seems to have great potential tho. Good luck on your journey..
No Dates yet, In Fact, no feedback at all. I have sent out over 20 emails and have not recieved a single reply or a flower in return.
Very strange indeed. Since about 80% of my emails are replyed to on a regular basis from other sites.
100% of the ladies I have written to or flowered do have common characteristics that would give us something to talk about.
In Summary, I would have to say that I dont think all of them are real people. just pics with fake profiles attached. something to give us hope. I have found that 90% of people will reply if only to tell you they are not interested. That is if the are real in the first place.
Good Luck to All, I hope you find what your looking for! LWAtkinson
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