Ok gotta question here about men!! lol ( Archived) (138)

Apr 15, 2007 7:55 AM CST Ok gotta question here about men!! lol
Merryberry
MerryberryMerryberryCentral, Scotland UK70 Threads 786 Posts
Why do guys never give you a straight answer when you ask them a straight question?? lol Why do they become evasive or vague of try to change the subject!! Dont say depends what the question is? lol

Is it my imagination or is the guys i chat to??? Help me out here ladies but Guys of course you need to add to this cos it is about you but dont worry i am not generalising it ..........i just wanna know!!!!!!!!!!! I know not all guys are not like that but me thinks most are! lolololcheering wave conversing yay

Answers please here >>>>>>>>>>grin

Magsy xx
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Apr 15, 2007 8:01 AM CST Ok gotta question here about men!! lol
AUD27
AUD27AUD274810, Queensland Australia2 Threads 22 Posts
It's because men are simple creatures. They're not manufactured the same way as us mentally, spiritually or emotionally. Well I should say some aren't. There could be many reasons for being evasive. It might include they lack self-confidence, could be self preservation, could be ignorance or arrogance. I bet you most of the time, the guy themselves wouldn't even know what emotion they're feeling or how to respond to something which catches them off guard or makes them uncomfortable.roll eyes dunno confused doh
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Apr 15, 2007 8:11 AM CST Ok gotta question here about men!! lol
Merryberry
MerryberryMerryberryCentral, Scotland UK70 Threads 786 Posts
Yes i guess it is a playful thread but me just wanna know???

Nice to meet you guys!

Hugs Magsy

Ps where are you guys? lolool

tongue
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Apr 15, 2007 8:13 AM CST Ok gotta question here about men!! lol
Merryberry
MerryberryMerryberryCentral, Scotland UK70 Threads 786 Posts
oh dear let me rephrase that! i mean nice to meet you smilin and aud and i meant where are the male species in this threadconversing

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Apr 15, 2007 8:17 AM CST Ok gotta question here about men!! lol
crotalus_p
crotalus_pcrotalus_pRush, Dublin Ireland43 Threads 6 Polls 2,789 Posts
To cut a long story short yes it is the guys you are talking to ,
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Apr 15, 2007 8:18 AM CST Ok gotta question here about men!! lol
Merryberry
MerryberryMerryberryCentral, Scotland UK70 Threads 786 Posts
??????????????????????laugh
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Apr 15, 2007 8:20 AM CST Ok gotta question here about men!! lol
biggdave1969
biggdave1969biggdave1969birmingham england, UK43 Threads 1,219 Posts
not all men are like the men you have known i am not like any of them i am a very successful man and if you want a straight answer just ask me i never see why anyone should tell a pack of lies to anyone myself i have always been brought up to to speak the truth about things
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Apr 15, 2007 8:25 AM CST Ok gotta question here about men!! lol
crotalus_p
crotalus_pcrotalus_pRush, Dublin Ireland43 Threads 6 Polls 2,789 Posts
cheers welcome to the club cheers
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Apr 15, 2007 8:29 AM CST Ok gotta question here about men!! lol
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
<Scribbling notes> From here on...EVERYTHING is answered "yes" or "no..."
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Apr 15, 2007 8:31 AM CST Ok gotta question here about men!! lol
crotalus_p
crotalus_pcrotalus_pRush, Dublin Ireland43 Threads 6 Polls 2,789 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 15, 2007 8:33 AM CST Ok gotta question here about men!! lol
Chele1964
Chele1964Chele1964Pittsboro, Indiana USA48 Threads 2,488 Posts
Boys are raised much differently than girls...they are taught to keep their emotions inside, because if they show them it makes them "weak" or less of a man. I have a son that I'm raising to be a man, but a man that should communicate what he is feeling and if he needs to cry, then by all means cry. I do know that men are also wired differently, but there are alot of men out there that are very open, honest and "commuicators".

The man I'm with now tends to be very quiet until he gets to know a person. He opens up with me now, but it didn't start like that. You mentioned trying to change the subject....and he will do this from time to time, just because he isn't sure how he is feeling about the topic, or hasn't made a decision regarding the situation. I bring it to his attention that he is changing the subject, but also let him know that when he is ready, I would like to discuss it.

Hope this helps a little....these theories are based on my own experiences and what I have learned through the years...doesn't mean it applies to all men by any means!
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Apr 15, 2007 8:34 AM CST Ok gotta question here about men!! lol
Merryberry
MerryberryMerryberryCentral, Scotland UK70 Threads 786 Posts
Hi bigdave1969 ...........well i know that not all men is like that wink but i just dont like it when you know there are secrets and you never get a straight anwser that is all, but then i guess it would not be a secret anymore would it?? lolorolling on the floor laughing

By the way i see you are from Brighton ..........i have only been once before and guess what? i am coming again...yeahaaa....for business and pleasure at the end of the month

So then i can see if all the guys in Brighton are as honest as you!! lol

Magsy xyay
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Apr 15, 2007 8:35 AM CST Ok gotta question here about men!! lol
Merryberry
MerryberryMerryberryCentral, Scotland UK70 Threads 786 Posts
tut! tut! no sense of adventure in a wee conversation.... come on spit it out cos you know you have something you wanna say!!!!devil

i am so bad today !!lol
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Apr 15, 2007 8:37 AM CST Ok gotta question here about men!! lol
nuala
nualanualadublin, Dublin Ireland12 Threads 6,456 Posts
i think its the men you are talkin to, they might have something to hide like the fact they are with someone or married. Most of the men around here are straight forward and if they post on the threads regular well it gives you a bigger picture of them.....hug
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Apr 15, 2007 8:39 AM CST Ok gotta question here about men!! lol
biggdave1969
biggdave1969biggdave1969birmingham england, UK43 Threads 1,219 Posts
hey darlin you can come to see me at my club anytime will make you very welcome . cannot speak for other guys in brighton but this this is good might even give you a tour round brighton too yay
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Apr 15, 2007 8:41 AM CST Ok gotta question here about men!! lol
Merryberry
MerryberryMerryberryCentral, Scotland UK70 Threads 786 Posts
I am not kidding i am really coming and it is an event that is going to be held in the Brighton dome! God knows where i am staying yet as i did not organise that but a friend did so i guess i will find out soon as i am leaving thurs 26th and rtning sun 29th.

You might bite me!!!rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 15, 2007 8:43 AM CST Ok gotta question here about men!! lol
biggdave1969
biggdave1969biggdave1969birmingham england, UK43 Threads 1,219 Posts
hey darlin i don't bite so will have to look out for you now yay
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Apr 15, 2007 8:43 AM CST Ok gotta question here about men!! lol
Merryberry
MerryberryMerryberryCentral, Scotland UK70 Threads 786 Posts
i think you may have a point acutally but to be honest this one was on here and he does not post but you know the truth always catches up with one doesnt it so ...........rolling on the floor laughing keep watching!!! lol
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Apr 15, 2007 8:44 AM CST Ok gotta question here about men!! lol
Merryberry
MerryberryMerryberryCentral, Scotland UK70 Threads 786 Posts
well there will be quite a few of us so you may not find me in a crowd lol goodness i best get my shades out and put my best smile on now!! help
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Apr 15, 2007 8:46 AM CST Ok gotta question here about men!! lol
denizen
denizendenizenMount Carmel, Pennsylvania USA18 Threads 137 Posts
I think in todays' society men tend to be evasive because anything they say can and will be used against them in a court of law.blues
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