Wadda Ya Think??? (40)

May 14, 2007 5:16 PM CST Wadda Ya Think???
Dandelion
DandelionDandelionSouthampton, Hampshire, UK34 Threads 5,236 Posts
Well, now I am fit and well, our date is to be this Saturday. The only thing is that the following day he leaves for a business trip overseas. He will be gone for six weeks. Do you think I should see him Saturday or wait until he is back? I'm just wondering what implications the gap may have? Anyone??
If the consensus is this Saturday, wish me luck??
dunno wave
May 14, 2007 5:22 PM CST Wadda Ya Think???
Englandzn01
Englandzn01Englandzn01Doncaster, UK11 Threads 1,572 Posts
Go for it,you might be kicking yourself for not going on the date.

Good luck hug
May 14, 2007 5:56 PM CST Wadda Ya Think???
nikkimay
nikkimaynikkimaypantheress, UK18 Threads 930 Posts
hi alison.wave

i think it would be a good idea to meet him first on saturday. Then if all goe`s well and u click then it will be something to look forward to an plan when he comes back.

On the otherside, if u don`t click and it does`nt go too well then u can both carry on with ur own lives, without any hurts.

smile hug
May 14, 2007 5:57 PM CST Wadda Ya Think???
nikkimay
nikkimaynikkimaypantheress, UK18 Threads 930 Posts
P.s good luck hun, hope it all goe`s well an u do click.hug kiss
May 14, 2007 9:26 PM CST Wadda Ya Think???
Drazic1986
Drazic1986Drazic1986Folkestone, UK19 Threads 596 Posts
Akward, really, if you meet up with the lucky bloke, this Saturday, and you really like him, you might miss him, for the 6 weeks, he's away...

Equally, you may as well meet him this Saturday, no point in taking a back seat, it'll probably do you, the world of good.

Have fun q=o)

Cal
May 15, 2007 2:21 AM CST Wadda Ya Think???
belle26
belle26belle26Lincoln, Lincolnshire, England UK15 Threads 1,661 Posts
Hi Alison.

Go with your gut instinct.

My thoughts are, go on Saturday, see how it goes....if all goes well, absence makes the heart grow fonder.

If it doesn't go to plan, your not wasting 6 weeks of waiting.

Its your decision, but go with what feels right.

Good luck and ENJOY!!!!cheering
May 15, 2007 2:53 AM CST Wadda Ya Think???
Merryberry
MerryberryMerryberryCentral, Scotland UK70 Threads 786 Posts
If my gut instinct says go on the Sat even out of curiosity i would go but i would hold onto my heart until he got back even if we got on as a lot can happen in six weeks!

Meet him to see if there is a connection or chemistry and then bide your time till he comes back but dont sit about thinking about him for six weeks just get on with your life as if you are just cool friends and have no expectations or you may find yourself falling with a bump! Take it easy and good luck to both of you.

This will be just the same forhim remember!! lol

Wear your best smile and just be yourself and what is meant to be will be and if not then it was not meant to be ..............thumbs up hug
Magsy x
May 15, 2007 5:32 PM CST Wadda Ya Think???
Dandelion
DandelionDandelionSouthampton, Hampshire, UK34 Threads 5,236 Posts
Thanks y'all...! There are some good viewpoints here, I was just wondering if there is a 6 week gap, anything could happen. He could meet someone else or just have a change of heart but, yes, I guess that could be said of me too.

I particularly appreciate what Belle said "If it doesn't go to plan, your not wasting 6 weeks of waiting".

Thanks again, certainly food for thought.thumbs up wave
May 15, 2007 6:00 PM CST Wadda Ya Think???
petethepainter
petethepainterpetethepainterinverness, UK21 Threads 862 Posts
There's not a chance in hell that he'll meet someone else Dandy! after seeing you on Sat I doubt he'll even leave! hug
May 15, 2007 6:06 PM CST Wadda Ya Think???
Dandelion
DandelionDandelionSouthampton, Hampshire, UK34 Threads 5,236 Posts
Ahhh, garsh!!! *hands in pockets,kicks the dirt* blushing
May 15, 2007 6:55 PM CST Wadda Ya Think???
xxLilyxx
xxLilyxxxxLilyxxHampshire, England UK36 Threads 3,678 Posts
Awwww, do whatever feels right in your heart, Alison.
If you decide to go, enjoy your time together, and good luck wine
May 16, 2007 3:30 PM CST Wadda Ya Think???
deborah12
deborah12deborah12wolverhampton, UK89 Threads 11,243 Posts
go for it alison, GOODLUCK. no smooching or more in the bushes, woohoooo wink wink wink
May 16, 2007 3:38 PM CST Wadda Ya Think???
Dandelion
DandelionDandelionSouthampton, Hampshire, UK34 Threads 5,236 Posts
Thanks,love.Smooching in the bushes? You betcha!!thumbs up
Ohhhhh yesssss....!!! blushing wink devil yay
May 16, 2007 3:44 PM CST Wadda Ya Think???
deborah12
deborah12deborah12wolverhampton, UK89 Threads 11,243 Posts
more than smooching!!!! be a bit daring !!!!wink banana wink
May 16, 2007 3:53 PM CST Wadda Ya Think???
Dandelion
DandelionDandelionSouthampton, Hampshire, UK34 Threads 5,236 Posts
Yes, but didn't tell ya what I'll be wearing,did I??devil
May 16, 2007 3:54 PM CST Wadda Ya Think???
deborah12
deborah12deborah12wolverhampton, UK89 Threads 11,243 Posts
probably nothing !!banana banana banana
May 16, 2007 3:57 PM CST Wadda Ya Think???
Dandelion
DandelionDandelionSouthampton, Hampshire, UK34 Threads 5,236 Posts
Ohhh noooooooo.... even better than that!!! So, yeah, smooching - the rest will just naturally follow!!! I have no doubt.....
Now shall I go with the red feather boa or the black...?? wink
May 16, 2007 4:02 PM CST Wadda Ya Think???
deborah12
deborah12deborah12wolverhampton, UK89 Threads 11,243 Posts
defintly a black feather boa!!! that should do the trick wink banana banana
May 16, 2007 4:20 PM CST Wadda Ya Think???
Dandelion
DandelionDandelionSouthampton, Hampshire, UK34 Threads 5,236 Posts
Good choice, it'll go with my thigh high leather boots then??? yay
May 16, 2007 4:42 PM CST Wadda Ya Think???
chriss
chrisschrissst.helens, Merseyside, England UK79 Threads 15 Polls 4,472 Posts
hunnybunny i am so sorry, i must of missed this thread, yes i think that if you realy want to see him then do it, you only live once hun:) and i wish you the best of luck for ithug hug hug
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