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Ummm Send your mum and move in with Chriss

Good idea

Personally, I think it's a great opportunity and you should go. My daughter's in Australia. She came home in Feb after a year out there, was so desperately unhappy she's gone back. Things weren't good for me at the time she went or whilst she was there but my biggest thought was "as long as she was happy!" it didn't matter where in the world she was because she could always get a plane back if needs be.

Egypt isn't that far away nowadays, there's regular flights which don't cost a real fortune any more. It can take you a longer time trying to drive round London than it does to get a plane back from Egypt!! lol!

And don't stay for your mum, no matter how much you love her and she loves you, this is one of those times when you need to search your heart for the answer. You could always go for a long holiday and if you liked it and mum's fine then you could extend your stay as long as you want. I would have felt a burden to my daughter if she'd not gone to Oz when she had the opportunity just because she was worried about me or stayed because of me.

It's simple, if it wasn't for your mum, would you like to go?

Let her go first, and go out to visit her for a holiday after a few weeks. You can then make up your mind without any pressure.

It would be very unfair of her to expect you to make any more of a commitment than that. After all, she's going out to be with her father.

Good luck anyway.