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Have you ever been so pissed off with a situation with a person you loved that you wanted to just call everything off, but you think maybe it will get better, maybe it is payment for the good that will come out of it in the future, because lord knows you never get anything handed to you in life with out som,e sort of recoil...I mean what do you do...there is no answer is there...do you stay or do you go....do you risk pain drug out for a couple months lose everything and then pull yourself back up again? Do you risk the pain for a couple months and then everything works out the way you hoped and then life couldnt end up any more beautifL???Okay I guess I answered my question there I think......Maybe I need to think about it more...sorry guys I just needed to vent a little...
Jerome

Its ok, we all need to vent! I was in the same boat as you a couple of years back, after I found out she cheated on me =X. But I stayed with her for a couple months and found out she kept on cheatin! Anyway, I don't mean to compare stories or anything, just trying to show ya how I fell in "the hole".

Good luck! Your a cool dude, you shouldn't let it get to ya =)

Allen

Thank you Allen

Biting tongue......

IT SHOULD NOT BE THIS DIFFICULT!

Jerome, chill

lol




she likes you
you like her


relax


don't throw the baby out with the bathwater!


:o)

I can't bite my tongue...

Jerome, If it's love, yes there's going to be rough times as well as great times! But.....she shouldn't be allowed to walk all over your heart like she's doing! How is that love?? One minute she wants to be with you, the next she don't. (If this is the same person you were talking about earlier) She is stringing you along! Why? Who knows! Her own insecurities probably. I have read some of the posts, and I think she needs to get her life in order before she commits to someone! (just my opinion) To me she acts childish. I know I shouldn't judge her, I don't know her, but from what you are saying, I think some (not all) would agree with me. I don't know ALL the circumstances, but YOU need to make a decision....IF she's worth all this heartache she's putting you through?!?!! If you put all your time and energy into this "girl" and it don't work out....you could have lost an oppritune chance to meet someone who would have made you happy, instead of hurting so much! I do hope everything works out for you...but keep in mind...is she playing you for a fool?? Actions speak louder than words...and from the outside looking in, I get a different view of what's happening. (like I said, just my opinion, I don't know the whole situation)

No you don't know the situation and all I am telling him is give me time

Good idea, give her time...



I'd say let her contact you.




You know, if you are beating your head against a brick wall, it feels good when you stop.


Blow the whistle and it's time out!

listen to the rooster.the rooster is wise...