Why does it have to hurt? ( Locked) (85)

Jul 29, 2007 12:20 PM CST Why does it have to hurt?
marie2
marie2marie2walterboro, USA25 Threads 693 Posts
confused Why does it hurt so bad inside and make you want to cry when you read the forums and find someone wishing your man and some "other" girl happiness and the girl is smitten with him...he claims he doesn't cheat on you than what has he done to her to make her go goo-goo all over the forums about him?crying


Just curious if I was the only one that feels this waydoh
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Jul 29, 2007 12:21 PM CST Why does it have to hurt?
Ojazos
OjazosOjazosCancun, Quintana Roo Mexico98 Threads 2,894 Posts
mmmmmmmm..................yes, I have felt like this Marie....crying
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Jul 29, 2007 12:22 PM CST Why does it have to hurt?
sassychele
sassychelesassycheleGresham, USA47 Threads 3,342 Posts
Ouch....hmm not sure what to say there...sorry to hear that. I know how that feels too.
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Jul 29, 2007 12:33 PM CST Why does it have to hurt?
HeatherHoney
HeatherHoneyHeatherHoneyMiddlesboro, Kentucky USA13 Threads 1,935 Posts
I am so sorry my friend... hug
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Jul 29, 2007 12:34 PM CST Why does it have to hurt?
lovaboy
lovaboylovaboyBig Bad Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK47 Threads 6,806 Posts
hug
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Jul 29, 2007 12:38 PM CST Why does it have to hurt?
marie2
marie2marie2walterboro, USA25 Threads 693 Posts
hug Yep did it to me again...wonder how long it will take her to figure it out..not gonna be from my mouthyay

Still got my friendskiss
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Jul 29, 2007 12:39 PM CST Why does it have to hurt?
nuala
nualanualadublin, Dublin Ireland12 Threads 6,456 Posts
thats life cruel as it maybe...but at least you found out the true person he is...and really do you want to be with someone like that....anyway you have good friends here that can make you laugh when you are at your lowest.....hug hug hug
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Jul 29, 2007 12:40 PM CST Why does it have to hurt?
sweetpeace
sweetpeacesweetpeaceSomeplace in, Alberta Canada5 Threads 275 Posts
People flirt on the forums, and mostly it's harmless, and... meaningless. Maybe ask him about it??
Anyway, I feel for ya.
hug
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Jul 29, 2007 12:46 PM CST Why does it have to hurt?
speedy5662
speedy5662speedy5662Tulsa, USA35 Threads 936 Posts
Some people can be real jerks!!!! Not everyone is like that though.hug hug hug
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Jul 29, 2007 1:48 PM CST Why does it have to hurt?
foreverireland
foreverirelandforeverirelandnow in texas, Ireland17 Threads 587 Posts
life sucks marie and you know that but if someone really loves you they will go out of there way to prove it yay
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Jul 29, 2007 1:49 PM CST Why does it have to hurt?
HeatherHoney
HeatherHoneyHeatherHoneyMiddlesboro, Kentucky USA13 Threads 1,935 Posts
I agree here... and they sure wouldnt hurt you with posts in a forum. professor
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Jul 29, 2007 1:52 PM CST Why does it have to hurt?
starliteisbrite
starliteisbritestarliteisbriteThe planet earth....:), Ontario Canada56 Threads 7,327 Posts
We can't control or make one feel what they do not.

We are so much more and so much stronger then most give themselves credit for.

Stand tall and hold your head high,you know how you felt and your feelings of sincerity........Tis better to see ones true colors sooner then later,you are better off.

You feeling down and or blue just means he won,do as you can to brush it off and consider the source and feel sorry for him,because you get what you give which means he is missing out on much.

Lite be with you.
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Jul 29, 2007 2:00 PM CST Why does it have to hurt?
Uniquemom61
Uniquemom61Uniquemom61Loveland, Ohio USA22 Threads 918 Posts
Because you have feelings and those feelings have been violated.....

I can relate to your hurt....
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Jul 29, 2007 2:01 PM CST Why does it have to hurt?
Uniquemom61
Uniquemom61Uniquemom61Loveland, Ohio USA22 Threads 918 Posts
hug hug
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Jul 29, 2007 2:05 PM CST Why does it have to hurt?
DakotaGermany
DakotaGermanyDakotaGermanyMannheim, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany16 Threads 670 Posts
wich man are you talking about.. see i had to find out the hard way that some men on here write the same romantic mails to many girls as well.. so well i think if the girls would stick together instead of catfighting each other than they couldn´t do that.. right??hug hug
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Jul 29, 2007 2:10 PM CST Why does it have to hurt?
Uniquemom61
Uniquemom61Uniquemom61Loveland, Ohio USA22 Threads 918 Posts
This is one of the things I have to question about the secrecy of who you are interested in....if it is mutual, then why keep it from public knowledge? Maybe more feelings would'nt get hurt.

dunno

Just an observation
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Jul 29, 2007 2:11 PM CST Why does it have to hurt?
biggdave1969
biggdave1969biggdave1969birmingham england, UK43 Threads 1,219 Posts
i have to agree to much much back stabbing going on here telling lies about certain things that which was not true i think i know who you are on about but that person is not like what you are saying about him yes you all flirt around i have seen it many times on here
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Jul 29, 2007 2:14 PM CST Why does it have to hurt?
catalinasgma
catalinasgmacatalinasgmaTampa Bay area, Florida USA1 Threads 14 Posts
Well Marie, I would be curious if you were not in some emotional pain about this issue. We hurt because we are wired to hurt when we are betrayed by someone we care for. But you are better than this. He is a skunk and if there is any glimmer of light here, be glad you found out now rather than later....comfort
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Jul 29, 2007 2:15 PM CST Why does it have to hurt?
DakotaGermany
DakotaGermanyDakotaGermanyMannheim, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany16 Threads 670 Posts
well but goofing and flirting in a giggly way is different then sending romantic love mails.right?? and the turning around and sending another girl the same???confused confused
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Jul 29, 2007 2:16 PM CST Why does it have to hurt?
biggdave1969
biggdave1969biggdave1969birmingham england, UK43 Threads 1,219 Posts
advice untill you know who you are talking about i would not try and cause trouble on this thread
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