On your 1st meeting-if u know u will not make another...Do you (8)

Are you honest & say no interest is there?

Or wait till he/she asks you out again?

I say nice to meet you I wish you luck in the future,

I usually say - it was nice to get together, but leave it at that.

Well, going out with a guy that picked his teeth with his fingers after a meal at the restaurant where you met for dinner, talked about his ex-wife all night complaining about life and then wanting you to commit for a second date? I don’t think I have to explain why I didn’t want another date (I think if you do it, it’s even harder to get out of a second date than out of the last half of the first date altogether). I realize we have to be honest. It’s perfectly fine to not like someone after a date. Although, it goes both ways – when someone tells you “There is someone out there better than me for you” or “I will call you, and that never happens” Ouch!!

I figure it is better if you tell the person you don’t want to go out with them again. It hurts, but at the end is better to cut your ties sooner than later.

I agree with Loveshine, indicate that be friends is not out of the question, if that is how you really feel. I wouldn't say that if the guy or girl was a complete jerk or wasn't serious about why they are on an online dating site.

I'd have to agree with Loveshines and Iluvtims sometimes things don't work out romatically but will as friends,as for the ones that don't do either...............they do have windows in the bathrooms don't they?
But seriously,I let them know politely that it's not going to work and wish then luck.Can't do much else.