I am meeting a guy tomorrow after emailing on the site and then instant message.. He emailes me every night, emails me every morning and we write for hour. He seems nice and I hope my meeting goes well. He did say he was writing other girls but I am the closet and he likes my personality. I told him I am dating others so he knows I am not pining away for 1 guy or a date but would be a one man woman if the right guy came along I really liked. Good luck to you that is also meeting someone.
so, as I wrote earlier, I met this guy in person.. it went so well, he emails me every night and sends me virtual flowers on his emails.. We talked for 3 hours and now he just asked me to go hiking with him Saturday.. it feels so nice to go out with someone.. have that "new relationship" excitement.. I have told myself friends first.. romance if it comes much later.. dont want to spoil building on the friendship..
Well we have been on 2 dates now.. He took himself off the dating site, I asked why, he said he wants to meet this other girl he met and then pursue a relationship with me. I told him I am seeing other guys until I find the one I like. I sure like him but scared he will be gone. He is very sweet and very nice. I hate the dating scene, so hard as I am honest when people ask me questions and I dont play mind games.. I figured if I have 3 guys in my dating circle I always have someone to do things with as friends and dont get stuck on one guy, until I know if he likes me. The guy said he was fine with me seeing others until he decided to move it to the next level of one on one.. so will see.
I love this site.. so nice to talk to you all and vent.. yippee another day, go make it a fun one.
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Biologically, watch his eyes. If his pupils dialate, he's attracted to you:)
After that, there are so many factors involved that it can be hard to tell. Actions will speak louder than words.