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Sep 26, 2007 6:47 AM CST just a thought
openminded1
openminded1openminded1sycamore, Illinois USA1 Threads 3 Posts
I see a lot of people on here have been cheated on , and most the advice given was to keep your guard up next time?...........ummmmm
so basically every relationship that a cheated person gets into after the fact is already destroyed cuz of the barriers?dunno What do you think?
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Sep 26, 2007 6:54 AM CST just a thought
bajanblue
bajanbluebajanblueSpeightstown, Saint Peter Barbados344 Threads 1 Polls 3,724 Posts
I think if we go into a relationship expecting someone to cheat we will create an atmosphere where they will cheat.

I am more of the school of look before you leap and be upfront about your concerns and expectations. While good fences may make good neighbors, walls and closed off areas are death to a relationship.

It also helps if you go through the loss and mourning process over one relationship before jumping into another.
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Sep 26, 2007 7:02 AM CST just a thought
bluebabsie
bluebabsiebluebabsiecambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK14 Threads 4,836 Posts
angel wave


Just have to keep trusting as everyone not the same babe .....we all get hurt but u musnt carry that hurt thru with ya to others else you will never get it right ....hope that helped ya wave
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