People that make first contact and show interest but after replying back to them they do not email you again. Had it happen just recently. A woman contacted me and said she would like to become my friend. I replied with a simple message saying yes we can become friends and I look forward to getting to know you. I said nothing wrong or rude. I just kept my reply short and sweet. This is not the first time I have had this happen. Am I the only one with this bad luck? Why can't people just say I found someone else or I am not interested anymore or I am too busy or ... whatever. I just do not think silence or ignorance is classy. I contacted someone today. She replied with a flower saying she is looking for someone closer. She had the class to reply with an explanation and a flower. Why can't people be more like her? I figure if I take the time to write someone they should at least acknowledge me, even by just writing I am not interested. Yes I know this is a trivial thing and I can assure you I wont lose sleep over it but dam that woman was attractive.
Well some people are rude or.. maybe she has not been on line and has not gotten your message or maybe she has been busy. There could be a variety of reasons.
I try to answer each and every message/flower i get well---except the ones that i believe to be scammers, and they are pretty easy to spot.
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I contacted someone today. She replied with a flower saying she is looking for someone closer. She had the class to reply with an explanation and a flower. Why can't people be more like her? I figure if I take the time to write someone they should at least acknowledge me, even by just writing I am not interested.
Yes I know this is a trivial thing and I can assure you I wont lose sleep over it but dam that woman was attractive.