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Jan 7, 2008 12:27 AM CST Need some advice...
HuskyRomantic
HuskyRomanticHuskyRomanticSalt Lake City, Utah USA36 Threads 367 Posts
On how a guy can stay out of the friend zone. What are things that keep guys in the friend zone? Can a guy get out of the friend zone into something more? Any and all ideas/advice about dealin with the friend zone is greatly appreciated. confused dunno
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Jan 7, 2008 12:37 AM CST Need some advice...
HuskyRomantic
HuskyRomanticHuskyRomanticSalt Lake City, Utah USA36 Threads 367 Posts
Also, ? for the ladies, if you know a guy and he never asks you out but he shows signs that he likes you, how long would it be until you place him in the friend zone?
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Jan 7, 2008 12:46 AM CST Need some advice...
friend zone..thats good. however husky you messed up my record..i went 3 days without getting confused by a thread..LOL all is good, i got it now.applause

my friend zone is very big...yeah there are guys in my friend zone that i really like alot. they have to be in my friend zone before they could ever go to a higher level...it takes time is all...its easy to be friends and easy to get in that zone, but time takes them from the friend zone to the zone we all want...
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Jan 7, 2008 12:52 AM CST Need some advice...
JH443
JH443JH443Akron, Ohio USA7 Threads 1 Polls 519 Posts
While I'm a guy, it's been my observation that if she's place you in the friend zone... might as well head for the locker room and hit the showers, you're out of the game.

Oh, sure, it's POSSIBLE to be drafted back into the game - but that's a choice she makes on her own.
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Jan 7, 2008 12:53 AM CST Need some advice...
FishingMTgirl
FishingMTgirlFishingMTgirlBig Sky, Montana USA18 Threads 5 Polls 971 Posts
thumbs up True but I can think of 2 different guys in my town who are in my friend zone. They keep asking me "How did I get there and can't get anywhere else?" My response is I don't have those type of feelings for you. You are like a brother and I love you for that. So for them they never will step out of my friend zone into a relationship. I think for two people to move forward out of that zone, they both need to have the same type of feelings for eachother and want to explore more than just the friendship. JMO
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Jan 7, 2008 12:54 AM CST Need some advice...
Rickster
RicksterRicksterNew York, USA24 Threads 3,362 Posts
Amazing. Like, I feel zoned like, totally you know?

Well, I would have to come straight-out and tell her how I feel. It’s not always easy and sometimes the risk can be a lost of a friend. It all depends on the other person of course. If it works on your favor, you’ll end up in a romantic relationship or have a really cool friend that knows that, you like her in more ways than one.

wine
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Jan 7, 2008 12:55 AM CST Need some advice...
JH443
JH443JH443Akron, Ohio USA7 Threads 1 Polls 519 Posts
I agree that friendship is important, but I think he had "we can still be friends" friend zone.
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Jan 7, 2008 12:57 AM CST Need some advice...
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
wave

yes.. friends first makes complete sense
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Jan 7, 2008 12:59 AM CST Need some advice...
well if he has that zone of "we can still be friends", then the zone has already been tested...no use increasing the speed, cuz it will take alot to get out of that zone...LOL

how u doin jh?handshake
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Jan 7, 2008 1:01 AM CST Need some advice...
Rickster
RicksterRicksterNew York, USA24 Threads 3,362 Posts
So how many zones are they?
confused
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Jan 7, 2008 1:01 AM CST Need some advice...
Shadow_lover
Shadow_loverShadow_loverWest Palm, Florida USA41 Threads 12 Polls 1,317 Posts
First of all why would you not ask her out?? what’s the worst thing that can happen?? she says no? Ask you self how many times you have been told no in your life, honestly I don't think you can count that high.
So since its not fatal you have nothing to worry about, so we move to the pros of asking her.. She like you as well and says yes.
Remember your a man so act like it and just do it and don’t be afraid to make a decision, or you can be her girlfriend.
Sorry if this is harsh but it’s real.
handshake cheers
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Jan 7, 2008 1:02 AM CST Need some advice...
yoursuperman
yoursupermanyoursupermanLynchburg, Virginia USA34 Threads 3 Polls 838 Posts
Yes that maybe true about the "out of the game" but also you have to take in consideration many who have been hurt or not sure how fast they would like to take something, Are playing it slow not to be in same situations as once before. You have to earn their trust , friendship,companionship and once those are commited you can than know they are ready for love.. Whats a friend but someone who can be looked close upon. so even now you dont see it being more , Give that person a chance to see the real you.. than maybe more can come in as time applys.. good luck.. handshake
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Jan 7, 2008 1:02 AM CST Need some advice...
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
not a bad idea really.
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Jan 7, 2008 1:03 AM CST Need some advice...
well the first mistake shadow...you didnt use the word ZONE!!! LOL just teasing, good advice...cheers
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Jan 7, 2008 1:05 AM CST Need some advice...
Shadow_lover
Shadow_loverShadow_loverWest Palm, Florida USA41 Threads 12 Polls 1,317 Posts
So you would advise him to sit in a corner and hide, while he admire her from afar??
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Jan 7, 2008 1:05 AM CST Need some advice...
FishingMTgirl
FishingMTgirlFishingMTgirlBig Sky, Montana USA18 Threads 5 Polls 971 Posts
Oh I completely agree Beb, friends first that is where the foundation starts and is based off of. But, there are just some friendships that I would rather leave at the friendship. And I have told them that. And with me being honest and them being honest. We have a great friendship. I probably worded it funny, I quit smoking and I am going insane for pete's sakemumbling
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Jan 7, 2008 1:06 AM CST Need some advice...
Rickster
RicksterRicksterNew York, USA24 Threads 3,362 Posts
That’s somewhat interesting because you never know if he or she is feeling the same way about you.
wine
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Jan 7, 2008 1:07 AM CST Need some advice...
Shadow_lover
Shadow_loverShadow_loverWest Palm, Florida USA41 Threads 12 Polls 1,317 Posts
lol well I have to agree if hes already in the friend ZONE he should look elsewhere because thats a tuffy to get out of.cheers
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Jan 7, 2008 1:12 AM CST Need some advice...
haha..i was wondering if u were gonna catch that...rolling on the floor laughing

I'd rather be in ur zone.............COUNTDOWN ZONE!!!!!!!!!applause hug applause all my best to you and babe!!!
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Jan 7, 2008 1:14 AM CST Need some advice...
Shadow_lover
Shadow_loverShadow_loverWest Palm, Florida USA41 Threads 12 Polls 1,317 Posts
Thanks Blue wink down to 15, then the wait is finaly over grin smitten
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