single or single mom? ( Archived) (41)

May 31, 2005 2:25 PM CST single or single mom?
eagle
eagleeagleorlando, USA8 Threads 65 Posts
Why a signle guy should/should not date a single mom?
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May 31, 2005 3:09 PM CST single or single mom?
DamnitsCloudy
DamnitsCloudyDamnitsCloudyLexington, USA22 Threads 2,578 Posts
I think if you love a girl, than you should be able to love her for her mother side too.
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May 31, 2005 3:17 PM CST single or single mom?
it depends on the person really......single moms are generally busier so if you want a women who isn't demanding of every second of your time then thats for you........ on the other hand, their children should be their first priority so u might be put into the backseat
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May 31, 2005 3:45 PM CST single or single mom?
whiteknight4u
whiteknight4uwhiteknight4u6 Threads 346 Posts
I think if a single guy won't date a single mom, that's probably why they're still single. It's just wrong not to give someone a chance because of a child. The same goes with the roles reversed. If a child is their excuse then they are pretty childish themselves. But that's just my opinion.
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May 31, 2005 3:48 PM CST single or single mom?
whiteknight, some people are just not prepared to handle a child I don't think it makes them any less of a person, it would be a personal decision... that would be just like ne thing else when u r dating someone its a part of them and it could be a part u just don't like
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May 31, 2005 3:50 PM CST single or single mom?
aprilblossom
aprilblossomaprilblossom166 Posts
I just have this to say...decide first if you want to date a single mom first, go thru the ends and outs of it all. If you know she has kids and you have doubts don't get us hooked and say well, you have kids and thats not really for me...
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May 31, 2005 3:51 PM CST single or single mom?
its definatly better to be honest all around
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May 31, 2005 3:55 PM CST single or single mom?
whiteknight4u
whiteknight4uwhiteknight4u6 Threads 346 Posts
I see your point Candy and it is well taken. Thanx!
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May 31, 2005 4:02 PM CST single or single mom?
DamnitsCloudy
DamnitsCloudyDamnitsCloudyLexington, USA22 Threads 2,578 Posts
Ohh thats harsh man. Sorry to hear
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May 31, 2005 4:04 PM CST single or single mom?
that sucks adj, no wonder u say bad things about women some of them suck
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May 31, 2005 4:10 PM CST single or single mom?
adj4u
adj4uadj4unorth central, USA4,943 Posts
candy

when did i say anything bad about woman dear

oh there was that one in what women want but is it bad if it is true

most do want it all lol
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May 31, 2005 4:11 PM CST single or single mom?
lol allright adj *hugs
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May 31, 2005 4:13 PM CST single or single mom?
adj4u
adj4uadj4unorth central, USA4,943 Posts
happy happy happy

me likes hugs from beatiful ladies hehehe
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May 31, 2005 4:14 PM CST single or single mom?
adj4u
adj4uadj4unorth central, USA4,943 Posts
oooppppsss

left out u

lol had to say it
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May 31, 2005 7:14 PM CST single or single mom?
cutelildevilsmom
cutelildevilsmomcutelildevilsmomportsmouth, New Hampshire USA60 Threads 7,772 Posts
I'll have to go with aprilblossom on this.If you don't like kids then you probally don't want to hook up with me.
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May 31, 2005 9:17 PM CST single or single mom?
eagle
eagleeagleorlando, USA8 Threads 65 Posts
I still don't know which one is better. For me, I never dated a single mom just because I was never looking for one, that's why I wonder what happens if you date one? Should we take the chance? I'd like to hear from single moms too, how they see the single and...?
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May 31, 2005 9:27 PM CST single or single mom?
Yellowcricket
YellowcricketYellowcricketCorvallis, USA70 Posts
Ok here ya go! I am a single mom and would NOT want a man to get involved with me unless he thought/knew he could handle it. Like a friend of mine likes to say "you don't mess with a simgle mom". It goes both ways I am sure, you shouldn't mess with a single dad either! But if you don't know how you would handle it all, just be honest with the lady about that very fact! :)
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May 31, 2005 9:29 PM CST single or single mom?
aprilblossom
aprilblossomaprilblossom166 Posts
Should You take the chance with single moms, yes...if you enjoy kids. Always remember tho our children come first. My children are everything to me! So guys with single moms, you have to share us, with our children. But when in a relationship I know how to treat my guy like hes never been treated before. Single moms know how to juggle a relationship and our kids at the same time. Making single moms worth looking into!!!
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May 31, 2005 9:32 PM CST single or single mom?
eagle
eagleeagleorlando, USA8 Threads 65 Posts
Thank you, nice point.
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May 31, 2005 10:07 PM CST single or single mom?
babycountry28
babycountry28babycountry28saint joseph, Missouri USA15 Threads 351 Posts
I am a very single mother of 6 beautiful children. Yes I know Holy cow. I have had both sides of the deal. Most men I have dated actually fall in love with my children. It is hard sometimes for them to understand though the my children are and always will be first.
That does not mean that I neglect the man I just want them to understand that if they are going to be a part of my life it also affects my children and I don't want my children to fall inlove with the man and then he leaves. But just because I have children does not mean I don't know how to love a man or be there for a man honestly most woman and men I know that have children are more mature and ready to have a relationship.
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