hey u youngs guys wats the go? (31)
Lou79: Then I am farked aren't I? no hope for me then.
lol
If I had a son and he come to me when he was 20 odd and said 'Mum, I am marrying Julie from down the road, the one with the 5 year old', I would be stoked. I would look at it from a different angle as it would show me that he was willing to accept responsibilty for so much more and show me that he loves Julie and takes her for everything she has and takes on that as his own. I would be proud if my Son was willing to do that.
lol
If I had a son and he come to me when he was 20 odd and said 'Mum, I am marrying Julie from down the road, the one with the 5 year old', I would be stoked. I would look at it from a different angle as it would show me that he was willing to accept responsibilty for so much more and show me that he loves Julie and takes her for everything she has and takes on that as his own. I would be proud if my Son was willing to do that.
Whilst you are proud of your hypothetical son, would that senario really represent reality? I mean seriously, a 20 yr old guy is far more likely to want to spend his paypacket on his car and alcohol then on Julie and her screaming kid.
bourbon: Whilst you are proud of your hypothetical son, would that senario really represent reality? I mean seriously, a 20 yr old guy is far more likely to want to spend his paypacket on his car and alcohol then on Julie and her screaming kid.
To true
not all kids are screaming though
I see this thread ended abrubtly after my statements...
So that means I either answered everyone's questions (unlikely) or pissed alot of you off... (much more likely)
Sorry if my personal experience seemed rudely stated or over-the-top, I didn't think so but hey...
Best wishes to all, if anyone has a further opinion, given some 100 views of this thread have occurred since I seemingly 'ended' it with my statement, someone out there must have an opinion. Lets hear it.
Good spirit to all
Imzati
So that means I either answered everyone's questions (unlikely) or pissed alot of you off... (much more likely)
Sorry if my personal experience seemed rudely stated or over-the-top, I didn't think so but hey...
Best wishes to all, if anyone has a further opinion, given some 100 views of this thread have occurred since I seemingly 'ended' it with my statement, someone out there must have an opinion. Lets hear it.
Good spirit to all
Imzati
dw man, a lot of threads round here die pretty fast
sweetangel20: yes i know i have a lovely child but come on I'm on here to find someone and when i contact them they all tell me to go away and they dont wanna date a chick with a child thats not theres. What is wrong with these guys? do they have a problem with kids? comment please
No!!! and don't you belive it
hang in there
I have a 17 month old daughter and im not worried at all about it scaring some guys off. Just see it as filtering out the bads, If someone is turned off you because of your child then they arent worth it and you wouldnt of lasted anyways. If someone loved you enough they would take you and your child as a package and see it as a great thing, so dont let it get you down 
be really fussy and dont take second best, You need someone who will love your child as they're own. Also most guys in their 20s dont want to settle down at all. Just a thought :P
be really fussy and dont take second best, You need someone who will love your child as they're own. Also most guys in their 20s dont want to settle down at all. Just a thought :P
Also i noticed your only looking for guys 20-25? realistically guys that age will not want to settle down with a woman and her child, you might get lucky tho...
Quite a few young single mothers cant even commit to themselves and they smoke or drink whenever they can...maybe this turns the guys off?
Me personally feel that at the moment im better off alone and im only here for a chat and to maybe make some friends :P. My daughters dad and i were supposed to get married but he cheated on me, so i dont have any time for him anymore (only when my daughter needs to see him) But its good to see your going to university next year, so am i...im doing a Bachelor of Arts in psychology and sociology, looking forward to it
Anyways, best of luck and take care of your child
Quite a few young single mothers cant even commit to themselves and they smoke or drink whenever they can...maybe this turns the guys off?
Me personally feel that at the moment im better off alone and im only here for a chat and to maybe make some friends :P. My daughters dad and i were supposed to get married but he cheated on me, so i dont have any time for him anymore (only when my daughter needs to see him) But its good to see your going to university next year, so am i...im doing a Bachelor of Arts in psychology and sociology, looking forward to it
Anyways, best of luck and take care of your child
honestly most guys aren't interested in dating a girl with a kid, but that doesnt mean that some wont, either that or the ones your contacting are the really good looking guys who have so many options that because you have kid you go to the bottom of the list. its not about you, its about the male way of thinking. dont give up cause there are still some good guys out there you just have to look very hard to find them. some guys like myself love kids and would be happy to be in a relationship with them but its finding those guys thats the hard part. so perservere and good luck
not every is like that.. look around I am sure you will find some one who will genuinly accept you with your kids..
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we cant always expect ppl to have open qualities.
some ppl are just scared of the unknown.
ppl without kids need time to adjust to the requirements of having children but you cant force them to want you with them...
for stability for my kids i dont include them into most of the get to know each stuff, until i am sure there may be more developing and then its slowly..