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Jun 30, 2008 9:50 PM CST what?
valleygirl
valleygirlvalleygirlottawa, Canada139 Threads 4 Polls 786 Posts
guy's would yyou support your wife or g/f if she lose her job or you do kick her out.

what do you expect in your relation

who has wearing the pants in your last relation.

crying
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Jun 30, 2008 9:54 PM CST what?
wolfpack
wolfpackwolfpackpost falls, Idaho USA8 Threads 770 Posts
support her
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Jun 30, 2008 9:57 PM CST what?
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
Support her. Jeepers. "You're unemployed. Get out of my house..." Youch.

In most of my relationships, the pants were worn one leg each...dancing
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Jun 30, 2008 9:58 PM CST what?
slim1977
slim1977slim1977my heart will always be in, Tennessee USA16 Threads 943 Posts
by all means suport, console, and encourage.

as for expectations, only a few, total honesty, support, and understanding, on both parts.
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Jun 30, 2008 9:58 PM CST what?
valleygirl
valleygirlvalleygirlottawa, Canada139 Threads 4 Polls 786 Posts
crying crying crying
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Jun 30, 2008 9:59 PM CST what?
alex_192
alex_192alex_192sarasota, USA38 Threads 1,271 Posts
valleygirl: guy's would yyou support your wife or g/f if she lose her job or you do kick her out.

what do you expect in your relation

who has wearing the pants in your last relation.


i fully support her, whether she looses her job, or she wants to quit because she does not like the job

i expect she will wait for me with a warm hug and a long loving kiss
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Jun 30, 2008 9:59 PM CST what?
Arlene101
Arlene101Arlene101Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada9 Threads 3,320 Posts
wolfpack: support her
thumbs up I hope so. Nice thread I would think there are going to be many responses to this Mariehug thumbs up
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Jun 30, 2008 9:59 PM CST what?
gringa
gringagringaPuebla, Mexico2 Threads 431 Posts
confused why sad?
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Jun 30, 2008 10:06 PM CST what?
Arlene101
Arlene101Arlene101Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada9 Threads 3,320 Posts
alex_192: i fully support her, whether she looses her job, or she wants to quit because she does not like the job

i expect she will wait for me with a warm hug and a long loving kiss
I think we agree on something. Right on! Last week was rough and I hope to see you more.thumbs up
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Jun 30, 2008 10:10 PM CST what?
Arlene101
Arlene101Arlene101Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada9 Threads 3,320 Posts
gringa: why sad?
Yes, why so sad?hug teddybear
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Jun 30, 2008 10:11 PM CST what?
Arlene101
Arlene101Arlene101Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada9 Threads 3,320 Posts
Arlene101: Yes, why so sad?
Well of course you know sweetie that was meant for valleygirl.handshake
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Jun 30, 2008 10:15 PM CST what?
Arlene101
Arlene101Arlene101Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada9 Threads 3,320 Posts
valleygirl: guy's would yyou support your wife or g/f if she lose her job or you do kick her out.

what do you expect in your relation

who has wearing the pants in your last relation.
If you feel like sharing this is the place to do it.bouquet
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Jun 30, 2008 10:26 PM CST what?
rasgumby
rasgumbyrasgumbyMoberly, Missouri USA99 Threads 10 Polls 4,665 Posts
Support her, but would also expect her to be out there looking hard for another job, not just sitting at home doing nothing.
and would also expect her to take a bigger share of the home duties while not working.

Balance.
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Jun 30, 2008 10:34 PM CST what?
Arlene101
Arlene101Arlene101Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada9 Threads 3,320 Posts
rasgumby: Support her, but would also expect her to be out there looking hard for another job, not just sitting at home doing nothing.
and would also expect her to take a bigger share of the home duties while not working.

Balance.
I totally support her. I used to work at Wal-Mart many years ago and they will use you if they can. Ras--what is it with the home duties stuffdunno confused
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Jun 30, 2008 10:42 PM CST what?
Arlene101
Arlene101Arlene101Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada9 Threads 3,320 Posts
Bedtime for me right now--wave See you all tomorrowmuch to your chagrin. Night everyone and have a good one.
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Jun 30, 2008 10:44 PM CST what?
rasgumby
rasgumbyrasgumbyMoberly, Missouri USA99 Threads 10 Polls 4,665 Posts
Arlene101: I totally support her. I used to work at Wal-Mart many years ago and they will use you if they can. Ras--what is it with the home duties stuff


Because when Im in a relationship.. w/ both working,, I did just as much around the house.. Laundry,, cooking, washing dishes,, cleaning house and so on..

But when I was last married.. she soon lost her job. did nothing but laundry. refused to even try to get another job. and even had the gall to tell me when I came home from work.. that I needed to dust the house, when she had done nothing but watch tv all day.

She was an RN.. could have easily got another job.. but said she didn't want to work.. 4 months after we got married.

well hell, I didn't want to work either.. but thats how we survivedoh

I agree abt wal-mart.. but still should be out pounding the pavement looking for another job.

Put as much effort into looking for another job as you would working a job.
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Jun 30, 2008 10:45 PM CST what?
alex_192
alex_192alex_192sarasota, USA38 Threads 1,271 Posts
Arlene101: I think we agree on something. Right on! Last week was rough and I hope to see you more.


i always post my view point

i dont have any need to share tem only on e-mails

i am not looking for aproval. you can disagree on my view point this week too
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Jun 30, 2008 10:55 PM CST what?
slim1977
slim1977slim1977my heart will always be in, Tennessee USA16 Threads 943 Posts
I could be over anilizing this but I get the fealing that valleygirl had a bad day and is in need of suport, reasurance, and uncerstanding. but is having a hard time asking for it. while I always advocate giving an honest opinion about the subject at hand we also must keep in mind the cercemstances that made someone post the question, and thier fealings. need or want for reasurance, understanding, and in general just a friend, someone to talk to, when we post our responces, because if the above is what she need and wants, then as "friends" here we should try our best to give it jmo
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Jun 30, 2008 11:00 PM CST what?
Arlene101
Arlene101Arlene101Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada9 Threads 3,320 Posts
rasgumby: Because when Im in a relationship.. w/ both working,, I did just as much around the house.. Laundry,, cooking, washing dishes,, cleaning house and so on..

But when I was last married.. she soon lost her job. did nothing but laundry. refused to even try to get another job. and even had the gall to tell me when I came home from work.. that I needed to dust the house, when she had done nothing but watch tv all day.

She was an RN.. could have easily got another job.. but said she didn't want to work.. 4 months after we got married.

well hell, I didn't want to work either.. but thats how we survive

I agree abt wal-mart.. but still should be out pounding the pavement looking for another job.

Put as much effort into looking for another job as you would working a job.
I see your point and well taken.thumbs up
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Jun 30, 2008 11:01 PM CST what?
Arlene101
Arlene101Arlene101Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada9 Threads 3,320 Posts
alex_192: i always post my view point

i dont have any need to share tem only on e-mails

i am not looking for aproval. you can disagree on my view point this week too
thumbs up
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