When you broke up....was it bad?? ( Archived) (25)

Aug 12, 2008 12:54 PM CST When you broke up....was it bad??
Karma3
Karma3Karma3Somewhere, Tamil Nadu India84 Threads 588 Posts
Sommerauer71:
Do not fight against it, shut it down. I am not sure what he is doing, but you have to consider you. However he is communicating with you.


Thanx for sharing Sommerauer. I have just cut him dead. I do not communicate with him in any form because the rare occasions when I have tried to discuss stuff about our kids, he has acted like a jerk off.
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Aug 12, 2008 2:28 PM CST When you broke up....was it bad??
princess49503
princess49503princess49503grand rapids, Michigan USA18 Threads 1 Polls 1,485 Posts
Karma3: I am just wondering if its 'normal' for the spouse that's being walked out on, to make things so bad that you ask yourself if you ever really knew the person. How was it for you?


good for mehead banger

bad for him....

a few weeks after I moved out he told me I can come back home as soon as I come to my sensesrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

I couldn't stop laughing....I still laugh when I remember that rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 12, 2008 4:11 PM CST When you broke up....was it bad??
OverTheWindow
OverTheWindowOverTheWindowChicago, Paris, Marseille, Illinois USA6 Threads 1 Polls 635 Posts
Well, the last relationship ended up with an e-mail doh See how men can be emotionally strong, avoiding a face to face... He moved because of his job (police officer) few months before and we used to see ourselves during the weekend.
It schoked me as Hell and I thought someone else was replacing me. I knew it as true, later.
About knowing the person...
He was a Sicilian, always with this pride, you see what I mean? And he judged at many time two of his colleagues who cheated on their spouse. Errrfff! No comment.
Dam mumbling

You never know anyone even you spend a whole life with them. Maybe two would light you up on who they are ? laugh
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Aug 12, 2008 4:16 PM CST When you broke up....was it bad??
VDLL1972
VDLL1972VDLL1972Sweet F.A., New Jersey USA977 Posts
It was bad 4 yrs ago

Now i feel it was for the best

We still communicate , we're happier

I guess things happen for a reason
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Aug 12, 2008 4:37 PM CST When you broke up....was it bad??
Cherokeegrandma
CherokeegrandmaCherokeegrandmaValencia, Spain4 Threads 163 Posts
Karma3: I am just wondering if its 'normal' for the spouse that's being walked out on, to make things so bad that you ask yourself if you ever really knew the person. How was it for you?


When I walked out on my former husband, there were just 2 things I do remember:
1st: he said "if you ask for any money, I take the child away from you" and I answered very calm: "If you want to die, just try" I never asked for money for myself but for a share to feed our son, which...after he refused to pay during 3 years, was taken away from his salary before he got his share.
2nd: he said "NOBODY will love you again the way I did."......thanks to God, that came true.
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