Sommerauer71: Do not fight against it, shut it down. I am not sure what he is doing, but you have to consider you. However he is communicating with you.
Thanx for sharing Sommerauer. I have just cut him dead. I do not communicate with him in any form because the rare occasions when I have tried to discuss stuff about our kids, he has acted like a jerk off.
Karma3: I am just wondering if its 'normal' for the spouse that's being walked out on, to make things so bad that you ask yourself if you ever really knew the person. How was it for you?
good for me
bad for him....
a few weeks after I moved out he told me I can come back home as soon as I come to my senses
I couldn't stop laughing....I still laugh when I remember that
Well, the last relationship ended up with an e-mail See how men can be emotionally strong, avoiding a face to face... He moved because of his job (police officer) few months before and we used to see ourselves during the weekend. It schoked me as Hell and I thought someone else was replacing me. I knew it as true, later. About knowing the person... He was a Sicilian, always with this pride, you see what I mean? And he judged at many time two of his colleagues who cheated on their spouse. Errrfff! No comment. Dam
You never know anyone even you spend a whole life with them. Maybe two would light you up on who they are ?
Karma3: I am just wondering if its 'normal' for the spouse that's being walked out on, to make things so bad that you ask yourself if you ever really knew the person. How was it for you?
When I walked out on my former husband, there were just 2 things I do remember: 1st: he said "if you ask for any money, I take the child away from you" and I answered very calm: "If you want to die, just try" I never asked for money for myself but for a share to feed our son, which...after he refused to pay during 3 years, was taken away from his salary before he got his share. 2nd: he said "NOBODY will love you again the way I did."......thanks to God, that came true.
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Do not fight against it, shut it down. I am not sure what he is doing, but you have to consider you. However he is communicating with you.
Thanx for sharing Sommerauer. I have just cut him dead. I do not communicate with him in any form because the rare occasions when I have tried to discuss stuff about our kids, he has acted like a jerk off.