With or without a man ( Archived) (6)

It's interesting how you thing a relationship will work without meeting someone in person. I've learned for the last time in my life that if it all seem to be to good to be true, than it's not true and real. I recently decided to try and get to know someone and build a loving and lasting relationship only to find out the person is "all about him" no compassion, for what I was going through. Said before we even met "I love you and I want you" wow that was a joke too. I really don't think that some men know what they want, they love to send the good signals and tell you want they think you want to hear only it always turns out bad in the end. I was corresponding with someone I meet here just recently and thought wow let me try again for the last time, only to find out this man was upset at me for talking good stuff about him, I was yelled and sworn at for telling people how excited I was to finally meet a wonderful man. When I told him that I talked about him, he went off on me like a bull at full charge. Dam what a surprise to me, for what I said about him was nothing more than what was on his profile here, so that told me a lot about this person and happy to find out before I met him.

Question: Why is it so hard to find a real man that wants a true and loving relationship without being on the defense about everything?

iv got a few good men for you.....try this man.....bewted.....hes a real charmer...

no need to thank me.....its my pleasure

Dam what a surprise to me, for what I said about him was nothing more than what was on his profile here, so that told me a lot about this person and happy to find out before I met him.

What a beautiful thing to say about the forums. I hope you stick around. :)

I will now I like the people who are talking with me...You all seem real and honest. Let all stick together...thanks again

So funny, I'm not looking for a young man, I'm looking for a long ans lasting relationship with an older man....Thanks