Many of us don't have our IM on here because it gets overloaded and starts freezing our computers. Just so you understand why it might be difficult, or why you may have sent IM requests and not have had them answered.
I don't even check those because my IM is off. I communicate on here by email and thread posts, and go off-site for IM if a friendship develops that far.
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