Hi Irish, i,ve just joined this site cos i wanna meet decent people and this is where a lot of friends pointed me to,but since i joined i,ve had mail from a few weirdoes requesting --- and i,m not into that, so some guys are taking the pi-- too!Sorry but thats the truth, you are not alone...............
Thats what your BLOCK button is for hunnymummy. Im sorry youve had some bad experiences. Where you have a large group of people youll always have the tossers. Welcome to CS and dont let it put you off in the least those bunch of ar**ho**s are in the vast, vast minority. Enjoy, have fun and hope you find your hearts fondest wish or desire.
Interested in what you had to say about judging people. I have been judged, and it is not a nice feeling, particularly when it is by somebody you have never met, and you realise you are being judged or being accused of lying, and it is because you are either not what THEY want, or won't do what they want. In other words, it is not really about you, but about their own stuff, and that they are trying to blame you for what has gone wrong instead of looking to themselves and accepting at least some of the responsibility. After all, every relationship, however fleeting, however 'virtual', involves two people, and laying blame at the feet of only one is cowardly.And of course, there is the fact that very often, expectations around all of this can be way too high, and that brings its own pressures.
Hiya Johnny, I found that block button real fast,thanks for your advice thou, cos i need all i can get.don,t know how to use this sit but am finding out the important stuff real quick.......like everywhere there are losers here too!
Nighty night Nuala, sleep well and dream of chocolate bars. Kinda like counting sheep except not as wolly [unless its been in your pocket for a long while
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