HI ALL, I GOTTA LITTLE PROBLEM, I THINK A YOUNG LADY I'VE DATED A COUPLE OF TIMES MIGHT BE A PSYCHOPATH, NOT A HOLLYWOOD FILM PSYCHO, A REAL ONE, HERE IN DUBLIN, WELL JUST OUTSIDE DUBLIN!. I START GETTING SUSPICIOUS WHEN I WENT TO HER HOUSE TO PICK HER UP ONE EVENING, HER YOUNGER SISTER (7) HAD A BLACK EYE, WHEN I ASKED WHAT HAPPENED SHE POINTED AT MY DATE AND SAID "I TRIED TO WAKE HER", OH LOVELY I THOUGHT, THEN THE REST OF THE FAMILY JOINED IN THE CONVERSATION AND TRIED TO DEFEND HER SAYING "OHH THATS JUST OUR (SK), SHE GETS A BIT GRUMPY IN THE MORNINGS", SEEMED TO ME THAT HER FAMILY WERE FRIGHTENED OF HER AND JUST WANTED SOME MAN/FOOL TO TAKE HER AWAY FROM THEM. WE WENT ON THE DATE, EVERYTHING WENT OK, NO SIGNS OF A VOILENT MIND WERE VISIBLE THAT NIGHT OR ON THE NEXT DATE. THEN I WAS ON THIS SITE RECENTLY, JUST JOINED IN FOR A LITTLE LIGHTHEARTED CHAT ON THE PUBLIC FORUMS, NOTHING MAJOR, WASNT SENDING FLOWERS OR MSSGS TO ANYONE..............A COUPLE OF DAYS PASS, NOTHING UNUSUAL, SAME OLD SAME OLD, THEN I GET A TXT FROM (SK HI )SAYING, " I KNOW WERE NOT REALLY GOING OUT LIKE, BUT IF I EVER SEE THAT U WERE ON THAT SITE AGAIN I'LL STAB YOU", WHOOOOOO THERE, I THOUGHT. SO I PHONED HER TO SEE WHAT THE HELL WAS GOING ON, SHE TRIED TO TURN IT INTO A JOKE, BUT KEPT SAYING SHE WOULD STAB ME IF, HAHA, IT WAS A JOKE/THREAT, BUT I'M NOT FINDING IT FUNNY, WE HAD A ROW AND I HUNG UP THE PHONE, A COUPLE OF DAYS LATER SHE PHONED ME FROM THE PUB AND TOLD ME THAT HER AND HER FRIENDS WERE PRACTICING THEIR SPEECHES FOR OUR WEDDING?????, NOW SHE KEEPS PHONING AND TXTIN ME, I'M FRIGHTENED SHE MIGHT TURN UP ON MY DOOR....... WHAT SHOULD I DO.????
far be it for me to judge some one i have never met.... but if you stick with her my guess would be you would not be long finding out what she is capable of.....
Peter, I'm sure I'm not the only one here along with you who's come across someone like this, they can be really scary and can literally wreck your life. The more attention you pay to her (negative or positive) the more she will move in on you. She will consider any emotion you display towards her to be a good thing. I spent a couple of months dating a girl a few years back and it took me a year to get rid of her, the only reason I did was she moved on to some other poor sod and I moved house. Only thing that worked for me was showing no emotion whatsoever towards her, threats to go to the guards didn't work, saying I'd be her friend and no more didn't work, in the end it was the distance that did the trick, and changing telephone numbers. She did some awful things, threatened to commit suicide a number of times, told my ex she was pregnant (an impossibilty!!!), faked being mugged, faked having cancer, faked having seizures and ended up in hospital several times, all for attntion, every time giving the guards/doctors/nurses my number as her 'boyfriend'. She also decided to move in with me after 3 days and I had a fight on my hands. Sorry to blabber on, but my advice is as above re. showing emotions and never ever be tempted to phone her or answer her texts, etc....cut all communication as soon as you can. Seriously, I hope she goes away for your sake, I cringe every time I think about my lovely 'psycho stalker' even now!
if she is reading this large print just might do it PETER RING THE GUARDS JUST TO LET THEM KNOW WHATS GOING ON fore warned and all that better to do it before the fact... dont threaten her with it just do it for your own piece of mind.. god damn mind games BUNNY BOILER comes to mind...
Erm folks not a good idea having a go at her here - could cause bigger probs.............. My pennies worth ; ignore, contact police immediately, if you can tonight as you are receiving txts regarding this topic , apply for emergency restrain order as she is tech harrassing you and go from there Whatever you do - DO NOT get into a slanging match with her in any shape of form - she will always justify herself no matter how unreasonable - it may escalate..Be careful PeterPan
Copy that, Johnny!! But seriously, this chick needs professional help. For a start, the Child Protection Aency should be notified as well as the gaurds for her apparent assault on the child. Her family seem to be terrorised by her. This chick needs a shrink (with a straitjacket!!) Pete, just fu ck her and don'tworryaboudit!!
hi all, i'm still alive, so is the psycho, but now she has amnesia according to one of 29 txts she sent me and has a rare illness that makes her not be herself, but lucky for me the doctor phoned her the other day and they've found a cure, she'll be back to herself and i'll see the REAL her, i think the hamster has fallen off the wheel, if fact i'm not even sure if there was a wheel to begin with, in her 3rd last txt to me she swore if i didnt want to meet her she'd never txt me again or call me, i didnt reply. So just lettin u all know i'm still alive and kicking, i only really posted it so she'd read it and get normal people's views on her behavior, but i shudda known better, lets see from now on, thanks for all the support and advice.
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THEN I WAS ON THIS SITE RECENTLY, JUST JOINED IN FOR A LITTLE LIGHTHEARTED CHAT ON THE PUBLIC FORUMS, NOTHING MAJOR, WASNT SENDING FLOWERS OR MSSGS TO ANYONE..............A COUPLE OF DAYS PASS, NOTHING UNUSUAL, SAME OLD SAME OLD, THEN I GET A TXT FROM (SK HI )SAYING, " I KNOW WERE NOT REALLY GOING OUT LIKE, BUT IF I EVER SEE THAT U WERE ON THAT SITE AGAIN I'LL STAB YOU", WHOOOOOO THERE, I THOUGHT. SO I PHONED HER TO SEE WHAT THE HELL WAS GOING ON, SHE TRIED TO TURN IT INTO A JOKE, BUT KEPT SAYING SHE WOULD STAB ME IF, HAHA, IT WAS A JOKE/THREAT, BUT I'M NOT FINDING IT FUNNY, WE HAD A ROW AND I HUNG UP THE PHONE, A COUPLE OF DAYS LATER SHE PHONED ME FROM THE PUB AND TOLD ME THAT HER AND HER FRIENDS WERE PRACTICING THEIR SPEECHES FOR OUR WEDDING?????, NOW SHE KEEPS PHONING AND TXTIN ME, I'M FRIGHTENED SHE MIGHT TURN UP ON MY DOOR....... WHAT SHOULD I DO.????