A little food 4 thought for y'all single ladies out there. (79)

Nov 21, 2006 2:12 PM CST A little food 4 thought for y'all single ladies out there.
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour.

Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.

Slower is better.

Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

Don't settle.

If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently?

Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you,speak up.

Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

You cannot change a man's behaviour. Change comes from within.

Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job.

Never let a man define who you are.

Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is two way street.

You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship!!!

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.

Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.

Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know s where you are, and you' re always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.

Never move into his mother's house.

Never co-sign for a man. (Ladies you know who you are!!!)

Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Nov 21, 2006 2:15 PM CST A little food 4 thought for y'all single ladies out there.
Hun, the sames counts also, the other way around !!!!!
Nov 21, 2006 2:15 PM CST A little food 4 thought for y'all single ladies out there.
And of course i know that....... hug
Nov 21, 2006 2:22 PM CST A little food 4 thought for y'all single ladies out there.
as my granny sayed...

treat other in the way, you want them to treat you too

well, i guess, dosen't count for everything innocent
Nov 21, 2006 2:30 PM CST A little food 4 thought for y'all single ladies out there.
Godsgift
GodsgiftGodsgiftEnnis, Clare Ireland251 Threads 13 Polls 10,040 Posts
Why do I get the feeling that one day I'm going to see you eat these words?scold scold scold
Nov 21, 2006 2:31 PM CST A little food 4 thought for y'all single ladies out there.
Johnny1060
Johnny1060Johnny1060Carlow, Ireland5 Threads 447 Posts
Hey Kel.wave
Hows every little thing?hug kiss
Nov 21, 2006 2:34 PM CST A little food 4 thought for y'all single ladies out there.
now now keith,,,,be nice!!! scold scold
Nov 21, 2006 2:35 PM CST A little food 4 thought for y'all single ladies out there.
i donno... mayb, cos i'm a lil devil
Nov 21, 2006 2:35 PM CST A little food 4 thought for y'all single ladies out there.
wave johnny babe,,,,im not too bad now chick and you? All going great for you i hope!! kiss kiss
Nov 21, 2006 2:35 PM CST A little food 4 thought for y'all single ladies out there.
confused think that was for me hunni grin
Nov 21, 2006 2:40 PM CST A little food 4 thought for y'all single ladies out there.
Johnny1060
Johnny1060Johnny1060Carlow, Ireland5 Threads 447 Posts
Bloody great Kel. Fantastic weekend.yay yay yay
and I was on my innocent behaviour, but not for long......devil grin
Nov 21, 2006 2:46 PM CST A little food 4 thought for y'all single ladies out there.
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughingi bet wink

great to hear its all going great for ya chick,,,you still coming ice skating wit us tho??
Nov 21, 2006 2:50 PM CST A little food 4 thought for y'all single ladies out there.
Johnny1060
Johnny1060Johnny1060Carlow, Ireland5 Threads 447 Posts
Definatly Kel. We are both coming. Might have one other too, my best friend is on this site and I had a few beers with her over the weekend and shes thinking seriously about it. yay yay yay
Nov 21, 2006 2:52 PM CST A little food 4 thought for y'all single ladies out there.
yay yay excellent,,,we'll finally get to meet you,,,,
Nov 21, 2006 3:05 PM CST A little food 4 thought for y'all single ladies out there.
Johnny1060
Johnny1060Johnny1060Carlow, Ireland5 Threads 447 Posts
Oh God, dont get your hopes up.conversing

Meetin me would not exactly be a highlight in anyones week........unless you were a Debt collector.... uh oh grin
Nov 21, 2006 3:08 PM CST A little food 4 thought for y'all single ladies out there.
ah now johnny,,,,you know we all loves ya and want to meet ya kiss
Nov 21, 2006 3:10 PM CST A little food 4 thought for y'all single ladies out there.
Johnny1060
Johnny1060Johnny1060Carlow, Ireland5 Threads 447 Posts
Loves ta too...blushing blushing blushing kiss kiss yay
Nov 21, 2006 3:11 PM CST A little food 4 thought for y'all single ladies out there.
Johnny1060
Johnny1060Johnny1060Carlow, Ireland5 Threads 447 Posts
Loves YA too, goddamit!!!!!doh blushing
Nov 21, 2006 3:25 PM CST A little food 4 thought for y'all single ladies out there.
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing



hug hug hug hug kiss kiss
Nov 21, 2006 5:17 PM CST A little food 4 thought for y'all single ladies out there.
optimistic1
optimistic1optimistic1Wexford, Ireland7 Threads 302 Posts
You getting philosophical now that you're nearing 30 Kel??? rolling on the floor laughing
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