Do friendships change ???? (7)

Apr 28, 2008 4:23 PM CST Do friendships change ????
I met up with a friend d wk end , ( Who i hadnt seen in ages ) ...

After many yrs of friendship , i realised dat people move on or not ...

Its a bit of a shock when u suddenly realise u no longer want 2 give, 2 d friendship n have very little 2 take ...

grin on a positive note think we would always b der for each
other
Apr 28, 2008 4:28 PM CST Do friendships change ????
CapeDoctor
CapeDoctorCapeDoctorGreystones, Wicklow Ireland16 Threads 2 Polls 137 Posts
nitak: I met up with a friend d wk end , ( Who i hadnt seen in ages ) ...

After many yrs of friendship , i realised dat people move on or not ...

Its a bit of a shock when u suddenly realise u no longer want 2 give, 2 d friendship n have very little 2 take ...

on a positive note think we would always b der for each
other


Yes this is sooooo true!

I recently met up with some old mates from high school, and I could just tell that we all changed oh so much, and that we would never be able to go back to the "good old ways", and that we would'nt want to either, because we'd all grown up!!!

The things that kept us together as teenagers were no longer important to us, and after taking that out there was nothing left...dunno
Apr 28, 2008 4:37 PM CST Do friendships change ????
cathy61
cathy61cathy61Waterford, Ireland19 Threads 1,184 Posts
nitak: I met up with a friend d wk end , ( Who i hadnt seen in ages ) ...

After many yrs of friendship , i realised dat people move on or not ...

Its a bit of a shock when u suddenly realise u no longer want 2 give, 2 d friendship n have very little 2 take ...

on a positive note think we would always b der for each
other

True................I met up with a friend recently who I hadn,t seen for 16 years(knew her from I was 7)
Boy had she changed, or maybe I had?dunno
Will always be there but............................we are not the people we were back then, life has taken it,s toll on us and we both have changed soooooooooo much but I will always be her friendteddybear
Apr 28, 2008 5:51 PM CST Do friendships change ????
patrickthomas
patrickthomaspatrickthomasMullingar, Westmeath Ireland33 Threads 4 Polls 1,911 Posts
Seems so doesn't it, we all change at different speeds and in different directions. Have met a few friends that had seemed to change in the same ways that I had and that was very reassuring.
Apr 28, 2008 6:00 PM CST Do friendships change ????
bluebelle4000
bluebelle4000bluebelle4000Meath, Ireland46 Threads 6,001 Posts
nitak: I met up with a friend d wk end , ( Who i hadnt seen in ages ) ...

After many yrs of friendship , i realised dat people move on or not ...

Its a bit of a shock when u suddenly realise u no longer want 2 give, 2 d friendship n have very little 2 take ...

on a positive note think we would always b der for each
other



Sometimes it can be like that.. but a true friendship takes up where it left off... have one friend i see very rarely.. but step into the room and we take up where we left off........ i have known her 18 yrs and our lives are very different and have changed drastically over the years... but we still seem to have a common bond and am very glad we have...
Apr 29, 2008 12:55 PM CST Do friendships change ????
Galwayman2008
Galwayman2008Galwayman2008Galway, Ireland11 Threads 278 Posts
nitak: I met up with a friend d wk end , ( Who i hadnt seen in ages ) ...

After many yrs of friendship , i realised dat people move on or not ...

Its a bit of a shock when u suddenly realise u no longer want 2 give, 2 d friendship n have very little 2 take ...

on a positive note think we would always b der for each
other


Maybe it depends on what the friendship is based upon. If it just that we both enjoy doing the same thing (e.g. sports) those friendships dont seem to last.

If the friendship is based on deeper connection, however, not much changes.

I have a close friend who I meet typically once a year, have known her a long time and I can say that we both know (and like) each other. I expect that friendship will continue to last.

Peterconversing
May 19, 2008 4:26 PM CST Do friendships change ????
catherinedeneuve
catherinedeneuvecatherinedeneuvecastlebar, Mayo Ireland9 Threads 204 Posts
nitak: I met up with a friend d wk end , ( Who i hadnt seen in ages ) ...

After many yrs of friendship , i realised dat people move on or not ...

Its a bit of a shock when u suddenly realise u no longer want 2 give, 2 d friendship n have very little 2 take ...

on a positive note think we would always b der for each
yes, sadly they do... but usually for the better?? other
cheers
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