IS THERE ANY NORMAL ONES LEFT!!!!!!!! (66)

Nov 22, 2008 6:39 PM CST IS THERE ANY NORMAL ONES LEFT!!!!!!!!
wexlady41
wexlady41wexlady41Wexford, Ireland47 Threads 5 Polls 7,935 Posts
i2u2me: no not the bully thats stoneage lol. when men asked woman to dance and took the lead get my drift...


I like the "old " way too. I like being asked to dance or having a door opened for me. I like good old fashioned chivalry.

thumbs up thumbs up

Doesn't happen though.

sigh
Nov 22, 2008 6:44 PM CST IS THERE ANY NORMAL ONES LEFT!!!!!!!!
Sevenotwo
SevenotwoSevenotwoDublin, Ireland8 Threads 1 Polls 1,381 Posts
wexlady41: I like the "old " way too. I like being asked to dance or having a door opened for me. I like good old fashioned chivalry. Doesn't happen though.

when women were cherished rather than respected?
just asking, honest
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Nov 22, 2008 6:47 PM CST IS THERE ANY NORMAL ONES LEFT!!!!!!!!
wexlady41
wexlady41wexlady41Wexford, Ireland47 Threads 5 Polls 7,935 Posts
Sevenotwo: when women were cherished rather than respected?
just asking, honest
7


When women were cherished AND respected.

thumbs up
Nov 22, 2008 6:52 PM CST IS THERE ANY NORMAL ONES LEFT!!!!!!!!
wexlady41
wexlady41wexlady41Wexford, Ireland47 Threads 5 Polls 7,935 Posts
I'm off to my bed.

night night all

wave
Nov 22, 2008 7:09 PM CST IS THERE ANY NORMAL ONES LEFT!!!!!!!!
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
candyshop: Ok so I see there are alot of ladies that use these forums so I have decided to ask all of you a question.. (men feel free to add a reply)..

Is there any nice, down to earth, normal ones left out there?

I have been on this site for a while and seem to chat to alot of guys but have not really hit it off with anybody. I chat and try to find out about them, ask questions etc, they seem more interested in getting my phone number, msn, yahoo what ever it is. . I was just wondering have any of the girls been talking to normal ones. ? ?



I was normal once.................Until the mother dropped melaugh laugh laugh

What is normal to you ?
Nov 23, 2008 7:04 AM CST IS THERE ANY NORMAL ONES LEFT!!!!!!!!
blondiemartin
blondiemartinblondiemartinWicklow, Dublin Ireland1 Threads 13 Posts
I'm beginning to give up hope! I have not met anyone on this that I have hit it off with nor do I even get chatted up when I go out!! I really am beginning to think there is something wrong with me. blushing
Nov 23, 2008 7:31 AM CST IS THERE ANY NORMAL ONES LEFT!!!!!!!!
wexlady41
wexlady41wexlady41Wexford, Ireland47 Threads 5 Polls 7,935 Posts
blondiemartin: I'm beginning to give up hope! I have not met anyone on this that I have hit it off with nor do I even get chatted up when I go out!! I really am beginning to think there is something wrong with me.


OMG Blondie.

You are young and gorgeous.

If you're giving up hope the rest of us have no chance.

doh frustrated frustrated
Nov 23, 2008 7:37 AM CST IS THERE ANY NORMAL ONES LEFT!!!!!!!!
blondie trust me when you least expect it it will happen always the way it happens for me
just relax enjoy your time here and and concentrate on making some good friends
Nov 23, 2008 8:19 AM CST IS THERE ANY NORMAL ONES LEFT!!!!!!!!
sweetvelvet
sweetvelvetsweetvelvetdublin, Dublin Ireland37 Threads 1 Polls 6,258 Posts
blondiemartin: I'm beginning to give up hope! I have not met anyone on this that I have hit it off with nor do I even get chatted up when I go out!! I really am beginning to think there is something wrong with me.


why don't you come along to the next cs get together ?don't give up ,believe me theres nothing wrong with you we all feel like that at timed.it will happen when you least expect it handshake hug
Nov 29, 2008 6:53 PM CST IS THERE ANY NORMAL ONES LEFT!!!!!!!!
chocciechef
chocciechefchocciechefwicklow, Wicklow Ireland1 Threads 13 Posts
candyshop: Ok so I see there are alot of ladies that use these forums so I have decided to ask all of you a question.. (men feel free to add a reply)..

Is there any nice, down to earth, normal ones left out there?

I have been on this site for a while and seem to chat to alot of guys but have not really hit it off with anybody. I chat and try to find out about them, ask questions etc, they seem more interested in getting my phone number, msn, yahoo what ever it is. . I was just wondering have any of the girls been talking to normal ones. ? ?
god i nreckon there are NO normsl ones especially not in the day to day world check out what heappened me the other noight on my dating experiences forum postcrying
Nov 29, 2008 6:54 PM CST IS THERE ANY NORMAL ONES LEFT!!!!!!!!
chocciechef
chocciechefchocciechefwicklow, Wicklow Ireland1 Threads 13 Posts
blondiemartin: I'm beginning to give up hope! I have not met anyone on this that I have hit it off with nor do I even get chatted up when I go out!! I really am beginning to think there is something wrong with me.
I feel EXACVTLY the same blues moping
Nov 29, 2008 7:13 PM CST IS THERE ANY NORMAL ONES LEFT!!!!!!!!
bethd
bethdbethdDublin, Ireland12 Threads 112 Posts
back to the stoneage so
we clubber men down and drag em to our den by the long....
rofl
Nov 30, 2008 2:51 AM CST IS THERE ANY NORMAL ONES LEFT!!!!!!!!
ciotog
ciotogciotogGalway, Ireland9 Threads 530 Posts
wexlady41: I like the "old " way too. I like being asked to dance or having a door opened for me. I like good old fashioned chivalry.

Doesn't happen though.

Sweeping generalisation alert: The problem now is that there's a mixed message from women (told you it was sweeping). I've had a friend get a lecture on equality and respect because he held the door of the library open and offered to let the woman beside him go through first. For something like that to happen is really humiliating and even more confusing! You've no idea what reaction you're going to get to what you may think is a polite gesture so the path of least risk is the way to go. The converse to that is how rarely people will say thanks to polite behaviour - I'm sure everyone here has been caught holding a door as a multitude wander through with nair a word or glance.
Nov 30, 2008 4:43 AM CST IS THERE ANY NORMAL ONES LEFT!!!!!!!!
wexlady41
wexlady41wexlady41Wexford, Ireland47 Threads 5 Polls 7,935 Posts
ciotog: Sweeping generalisation alert: The problem now is that there's a mixed message from women (told you it was sweeping). I've had a friend get a lecture on equality and respect because he held the door of the library open and offered to let the woman beside him go through first. For something like that to happen is really humiliating and even more confusing! You've no idea what reaction you're going to get to what you may think is a polite gesture so the path of least risk is the way to go. The converse to that is how rarely people will say thanks to polite behaviour - I'm sure everyone here has been caught holding a door as a multitude wander through with nair a word or glance.


Ciotog, I have seen that happen too. I saw a woman be extremely rude to a guy who held the door and let her pass before him. She was not quiet and he was embarrassed.

I walked in behind them and told the guy (just loud enough for the woman to hear) that it was lovely to see a man with manners and that some people appreciated kindness.

He was delighted but the woman just glared at me and walked off. Guilty conscience I guess.

dunno dunno
Nov 30, 2008 4:50 AM CST IS THERE ANY NORMAL ONES LEFT!!!!!!!!
ciaran64
ciaran64ciaran64drimnagh, Dublin Ireland217 Threads 4 Polls 5,881 Posts
wexlady41: Ciotog, I have seen that happen too. I saw a woman be extremely rude to a guy who held the door and let her pass before him. She was not quiet and he was embarrassed.

I walked in behind them and told the guy (just loud enough for the woman to hear) that it was lovely to see a man with manners and that some people appreciated kindness.

He was delighted but the woman just glared at me and walked off. Guilty conscience I guess.
morning clodagh my mate runs a pub i dublin and the storieshe told me bout manners
Nov 30, 2008 5:05 AM CST IS THERE ANY NORMAL ONES LEFT!!!!!!!!
wexlady41
wexlady41wexlady41Wexford, Ireland47 Threads 5 Polls 7,935 Posts
ciaran64: morning clodagh my mate runs a pub i dublin and the storieshe told me bout manners


I can imagine Ciaran. People with no manners when they're sober are usually totally obnoxious when they're drunk.

uh oh
Nov 30, 2008 6:45 AM CST IS THERE ANY NORMAL ONES LEFT!!!!!!!!
americanindublin
americanindublinamericanindublinDublin, Ireland5 Threads 94 Posts
I am certainly not normal. Normal would be an insult. Normal is boring and gets old real quick.
Nov 30, 2008 6:54 AM CST IS THERE ANY NORMAL ONES LEFT!!!!!!!!
wexlady41
wexlady41wexlady41Wexford, Ireland47 Threads 5 Polls 7,935 Posts
americanindublin: I am certainly not normal. Normal would be an insult. Normal is boring and gets old real quick.


Unfortunately I'm normal, old (well I'm not old but I feel old) and boring. In fact I'm the most boring person I know. Trying to change that though.

roll eyes roll eyes
Nov 30, 2008 7:00 AM CST IS THERE ANY NORMAL ONES LEFT!!!!!!!!
americanindublin
americanindublinamericanindublinDublin, Ireland5 Threads 94 Posts
embrace your inner mentalist!
Nov 30, 2008 2:38 PM CST IS THERE ANY NORMAL ONES LEFT!!!!!!!!
ciotog
ciotogciotogGalway, Ireland9 Threads 530 Posts
wexlady41: Ciotog, I have seen that happen too. I saw a woman be extremely rude to a guy who held the door and let her pass before him. She was not quiet and he was embarrassed.

I walked in behind them and told the guy (just loud enough for the woman to hear) that it was lovely to see a man with manners and that some people appreciated kindness.

He was delighted but the woman just glared at me and walked off. Guilty conscience I guess.

Very nice of you to do that, ease some of the guys mortification.
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