How hard it is (13)

Nov 29, 2008 3:01 PM CST How hard it is
americanindublin
americanindublinamericanindublinDublin, Ireland5 Threads 94 Posts
How hard it is to find an honest woman. I have been lied to so many times and today was the worse. The woman I have been living with has been cheating on me for the last three months. I listened to her when she needed to be heard, I supported her when she lost her job, she shared our bed... the whole time she was cheating behind my back.

I am physically sick. To everyone of you who longs for a companion. For everyone one of you lonely people. I am here to tell you it can be worse. You can think you have it and then realize it's a lie.

To any of you who are lucky enough to have the real thing, hold on to it because you are truly blessed.
Nov 29, 2008 3:03 PM CST How hard it is
tgwstw
tgwstwtgwstwCork, Ireland71 Threads 4 Polls 3,070 Posts
Jeez man.

That sucks, I know that sinking low belly ouchiness you are experiencing. I know it all too well, but in saying that I have never been an angel myself.

Hard to see past it at the minute, do what you gotta. Drink, curse condemn to her to hell!

Things can only get better. handshake
Nov 29, 2008 3:03 PM CST How hard it is
SillyGirl
SillyGirlSillyGirlDublin 15, Dublin Ireland26 Threads 1,529 Posts
americanindublin: How hard it is to find an honest woman. I have been lied to so many times and today was the worse. The woman I have been living with has been cheating on me for the last three months. I listened to her when she needed to be heard, I supported her when she lost her job, she shared our bed... the whole time she was cheating behind my back.

I am physically sick. To everyone of you who longs for a companion. For everyone one of you lonely people. I am here to tell you it can be worse. You can think you have it and then realize it's a lie.

To any of you who are lucky enough to have the real thing, hold on to it because you are truly blessed.


My heart goes out to you, there's nothing worse than to be hurt by dishonesty comfort
Nov 29, 2008 3:08 PM CST How hard it is
wexlady41
wexlady41wexlady41Wexford, Ireland47 Threads 5 Polls 7,935 Posts
It's not only women who lie. Unfortunately there are both men and women who do it.

I know from experience that dishonesty is probably one of the hardest things to get over. But you can do it.

It'll take time though


wave wave wave
Nov 29, 2008 3:12 PM CST How hard it is
SillyGirl
SillyGirlSillyGirlDublin 15, Dublin Ireland26 Threads 1,529 Posts
"Time is a great healer" is a phrase I once looked on in disdain but it's true. The thing is not to take trust issues from this relationship into your next one comfort
Nov 29, 2008 3:15 PM CST How hard it is
wexlady41
wexlady41wexlady41Wexford, Ireland47 Threads 5 Polls 7,935 Posts
SillyGirl: "Time is a great healer" is a phrase I once looked on in disdain but it's true. The thing is not to take trust issues from this relationship into your next one


Very hard to do.

wave
Nov 29, 2008 3:16 PM CST How hard it is
americanindublin
americanindublinamericanindublinDublin, Ireland5 Threads 94 Posts
I wasn't implying men don't lie, I was commenting from my unique perspective.
Nov 29, 2008 3:17 PM CST How hard it is
americanindublin
americanindublinamericanindublinDublin, Ireland5 Threads 94 Posts
Thanks all for the words of encouragement.
Nov 29, 2008 3:20 PM CST How hard it is
SillyGirl
SillyGirlSillyGirlDublin 15, Dublin Ireland26 Threads 1,529 Posts
americanindublin: Thanks all for the words of encouragement.


You're welcome, now chin up comfort
Nov 29, 2008 3:21 PM CST How hard it is
wexlady41
wexlady41wexlady41Wexford, Ireland47 Threads 5 Polls 7,935 Posts
americanindublin: I wasn't implying men don't lie, I was commenting from my unique perspective.


never thought for one moment you were implying such a thing.

Hope you find someone lovely to restore your faith.

(if you do... aske her if she has a brother and send him this way)

teddybear
Nov 29, 2008 3:22 PM CST How hard it is
derrywoman
derrywomanderrywomanderry, Derry Ireland60 Threads 2,869 Posts
I always think,which mite not be easy for you to look at this way at minute,,but better finding out now,,than even later down the road,and also,out of bad always comes good,which in time,u will realize the good that has come out of this hurt.keep the chin up,as the song goes,,,things can only get better!comfort
Nov 29, 2008 3:26 PM CST How hard it is
sweetvelvet
sweetvelvetsweetvelvetdublin, Dublin Ireland37 Threads 1 Polls 6,258 Posts
sorry to hear this.its hard when someone lies to you.its a pity everyone we meet is not honest. hug
Nov 29, 2008 6:44 PM CST How hard it is
maryb
marybmarybDrogheda, Louth Ireland3 Threads 34 Posts
heart wingsPut in in the bin of life,and move on,we all did it at least once.Take time to feel ur emotions all of them and thats what gets u throgh,take care. lips
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