did you ever? (26)

Jan 15, 2009 5:09 PM CST did you ever?
derrywoman
derrywomanderrywomanderry, Derry Ireland60 Threads 2,869 Posts
Go out in the limb,,for the net,,meaning for the people you have met,,and have become friends with,,,and worry about anothers reaction,as they are to believe,,that the net is full of pervs?roll eyes i just did tonite,,when i say i was going to dublin,,,and was ask why,,so i say and was honest,,with a family member,though pointed out to her,,you can go out every w,e r every other w,e and meet someone,when your full of drink,,and remember not even the persons,name,as she had told me,,where as the net,,u have the advantage,,of getting to know,,the person(or u get to know,,and remember,,what the person has told you)and also i have met some good friends on the net,,even in chat before this site,,whom i still meet up for gurlie nites,,and being honest,,some of them has been more real in the friends i have met,,in daily life,,,,so why do people judge the net,,when at the end of the day we r all the same,,and human beings at the end of the day?
Jan 15, 2009 5:21 PM CST did you ever?
clio35
clio35clio35dublin, Dublin Ireland2 Threads 95 Posts
Hi Derry!

I totally agree with u. In person u can make up lies, but on the net time passes and ppl suss who the liars r!!

teddybear
Jan 15, 2009 5:22 PM CST did you ever?
mcneillm
mcneillmmcneillmEnnis, Clare Ireland2 Threads 1,250 Posts
Yes, but on the net, people can drag things out for ages, whereas in real-life, you're more likely to get get a quick yes/no...
Jan 15, 2009 5:35 PM CST did you ever?
derrywoman
derrywomanderrywomanderry, Derry Ireland60 Threads 2,869 Posts
mcneillm: Yes, but on the net, people can drag things out for ages, whereas in real-life, you're more likely to get get a quick yes/no...
Or in the other hand mc,,u can have the yes for the nite,,and next morning,,wonder?laugh Just like real life,,it has its advantages and disadvantages,,,bt at least u have that time,on the net,,by emailing etc,,to suss the person out,,and even as i have found,,make even true friendsgrin
Jan 15, 2009 5:35 PM CST did you ever?
derrywoman
derrywomanderrywomanderry, Derry Ireland60 Threads 2,869 Posts
mcneillm: Yes, but on the net, people can drag things out for ages, whereas in real-life, you're more likely to get get a quick yes/no...
Or in the other hand mc,,u can have the yes for the nite,,and next morning,,wonder?laugh Just like real life,,it has its advantages and disadvantages,,,bt at least u have that time,on the net,,by emailing etc,,to suss the person out,,and even as i have found,,make even true friendsgrin
Jan 15, 2009 5:40 PM CST did you ever?
mcneillm
mcneillmmcneillmEnnis, Clare Ireland2 Threads 1,250 Posts
Well, I suppose my response is on a personal experience I had here, which I won't recall here, but essentially I'd have preferred a direct no straight away than having to guess it a few months later...
Jan 15, 2009 5:44 PM CST did you ever?
i think online is great way to meet ple i met lot of great ple hee and elsewhere online and consider them lifetime friends even if in different countries
as said when you get chatting in forujms or chatroom you kind of suss whos a bs artist
Jan 15, 2009 5:45 PM CST did you ever?
derrywoman
derrywomanderrywomanderry, Derry Ireland60 Threads 2,869 Posts
mcneillm: Well, I suppose my response is on a personal experience I had here, which I won't recall here, but essentially I'd have preferred a direct no straight away than having to guess it a few months later...
but mc,,, u can,t judge us all,,like,,on here,,for your bad experience,,if we all did that,we would,nt be here,,and in life in general,,,sometimes,,we find out the hard way,,who r real friends,,and whos not,,so theres no difference really,,we live and learn,,and move ongrin Quote....(The only mistake,,we mke in life,,is the one,,,WE LEARN NOTHING FROMhug)
Jan 15, 2009 5:45 PM CST did you ever?
sweetvelvet
sweetvelvetsweetvelvetdublin, Dublin Ireland37 Threads 1 Polls 6,258 Posts
i remember a friend of mine who was going on a date with someone from the net a few years ago and i said she could be meeting an axw murderer laugh ive since changed my mind lol ive met a great bunch of people and im sure ill meet a great many more before too much longer.lolteddybear teddybear
Jan 15, 2009 5:46 PM CST did you ever?
Crystal29
Crystal29Crystal29Glasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK35 Threads 8,448 Posts
Hi folks....well Derrywoman.....I have met a few wonderful people from the net, both male and female.....and I have told a few close friends..however I couldnt tell my workmates or they would give me such a hard time.....laugh



wave
Jan 15, 2009 5:46 PM CST did you ever?
derrywoman
derrywomanderrywomanderry, Derry Ireland60 Threads 2,869 Posts
vinny1967: Am actually laughin out loud

I hope you know I was bein facetious

The first two paragraphs were serious tho..........

Sorry Derry........couldnt help it
rolling on the floor laughing ach vinny,,duhhhhh i,m not that thick,,not to know when ur windingyay rolling on the floor laughing oh and by the wayyyytongue tongue
Jan 15, 2009 5:47 PM CST did you ever?
sweetvelvet: i remember a friend of mine who was going on a date with someone from the net a few years ago and i said she could be meeting an axw murderer ive since changed my mind lol ive met a great bunch of people and im sure ill meet a great many more before too much longer.lol

wonder who that wasrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Jan 15, 2009 5:47 PM CST did you ever?
derrywoman
derrywomanderrywomanderry, Derry Ireland60 Threads 2,869 Posts
tallaght_guy: i think online is great way to meet ple i met lot of great ple hee and elsewhere online and consider them lifetime friends even if in different countries
as said when you get chatting in forujms or chatroom you kind of suss whos a bs artist
thumbs up true rob,,,thought u where in bed???laugh
Jan 15, 2009 5:47 PM CST did you ever?
derrywoman
derrywomanderrywomanderry, Derry Ireland60 Threads 2,869 Posts
tallaght_guy: wonder who that was
laugh
Jan 15, 2009 5:48 PM CST did you ever?
ladylumps
ladylumpsladylumpsDublin, Ireland105 Threads 4 Polls 9,454 Posts
I think the whole internet is still very new and unknown to alot of people and I think its the fear of the unknow that makes people laugh at it. Years ago people had pen pals you would send off your form with your fee and list of interests and they would send you back the details of someone with similar interests and the letters would be exchanged, I think these sites are something similar but have changed with the times and are the modern version of penpals. To the people that knock what we do and the friends you can make I would ask have you tried it?? There are just as many weirdos out there in the real world as there are on the internet but I do think you can suss them out quicker on the net. JMO dunno teddybear
Jan 15, 2009 5:48 PM CST did you ever?
i was till i got up lol
derrywoman: true rob,,,thought u where in bed???
Jan 15, 2009 5:50 PM CST did you ever?
sweetvelvet
sweetvelvetsweetvelvetdublin, Dublin Ireland37 Threads 1 Polls 6,258 Posts
tallaght_guy: wonder who that was



rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing i wonder rolling on the floor laughing
Jan 15, 2009 5:50 PM CST did you ever?
derrywoman
derrywomanderrywomanderry, Derry Ireland60 Threads 2,869 Posts
Crystal29: Hi folks....well Derrywoman.....I have met a few wonderful people from the net, both male and female.....and I have told a few close friends..however I couldnt tell my workmates or they would give me such a hard time.....
wave hi carole,,same here,,and i went out in a limb tonite,i always think,,,is,nt it sad,,,people go out every w,e,,meet men r women,hook up with them,,but thats acceptable,,but on the net its not,,ok,,i know granted u can meet the odd creep(in derry terms,on the net lol)but sure u can meet him in real life too::confused:so whats the difference,,for people to judge dunno
Jan 15, 2009 5:51 PM CST did you ever?
derrywoman
derrywomanderrywomanderry, Derry Ireland60 Threads 2,869 Posts
clio35: Hi Derry!

I totally agree with u. In person u can make up lies, but on the net time passes and ppl suss who the liars r!!
thumbs upsorry clio,,i for got to say i agree with you teddybear
Jan 15, 2009 5:52 PM CST did you ever?
shadowlord69
shadowlord69shadowlord69dublin, Dublin Ireland76 Threads 3,778 Posts
sweetvelvet: i remember a friend of mine who was going on a date with someone from the net a few years ago and i said she could be meeting an axw murderer ive since changed my mind lol ive met a great bunch of people and im sure ill meet a great many more before too much longer.lol
conversing must remember to freak out sv on monday by standing there sharpening my double edged sword devil
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