I haven't been on this site for a long time. However I thought I could get some advice here. I have been friends with a beautiful woman who has been seperated from her husband for several months. She was brutally beaten both physically and emotionaly. We have been freinds for a few months, and I am becoming quite smitten with her. I believe the feelings may be mutual on her part as well. I want to know the best way to go about this situation, as it is very delicate. I don't want to seem pushy . I respect this woman very much and deeply care about her.I honestly think that God meant for us to meet.I have never been involved with with a battered woman and I need help on just what is the right way to go about this. Any help would be greatly appreciated !
Thank you. A restraining order was done. Her lawyer is on this bums tail too. He failed to show up at their divorce trial 2 weeks ago. This jerk is an army chaplin too!
I have been the this woman many many years ago, and let me tell you she has alot of healing and growing to do, a re-establishing of herself and everything around her so to speak. During this time I believe you are incapable of truly giving yourself and laying the foundation for a new relationship. She needs to get healthy first.......just be there for her and let her try to love herself again (because I guarantee she does not right now) before she jumps into something with you.......
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She was brutally beaten both physically and emotionaly.
We have been freinds for a few months, and I am becoming quite smitten with her. I believe the feelings may be mutual on her part as well.
I want to know the best way to go about this situation, as it is very delicate. I don't want to seem pushy . I respect this woman very much and deeply care about her.I honestly think that God meant for us to meet.I have never been involved with with a battered woman and I need help on just what is the right way to go about this. Any help would be greatly appreciated !