hello.. its been a while since ive been on here, but i hope sumone will b able 2 offer sum advice... i met a guy online, we've been chatting for about 2 months, swapped numbers, send a million texts a day, chat for hours at night (and he only lives half an hour away from me) - and we're meeting for dinner next Thurs. Im sooo nervous... i havent had a date in about a year... any advice for me???? Please????? I really think i could connect with this man and dont wanna mess it up!
mbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA16,449 posts
twinkletoes77: hello.. its been a while since ive been on here, but i hope sumone will b able 2 offer sum advice... i met a guy online, we've been chatting for about 2 months, swapped numbers, send a million texts a day, chat for hours at night (and he only lives half an hour away from me) - and we're meeting for dinner next Thurs. Im sooo nervous... i havent had a date in about a year... any advice for me???? Please????? I really think i could connect with this man and dont wanna mess it up!
Just be yourself. He likes you for who you have been for the last 2 months...feel confident with that.
I hope you have a great time, it works out how you want, and let us know how it went.
mbcasey: Just be yourself. He likes you for who you have been for the last 2 months...feel confident with that.
I hope you have a great time, it works out how you want, and let us know how it went.
Hiya Ken
That so true what you said, just be your natural self as that is the reason he asked you our in the first place. As he has got to know you well over the last 2 months so all you need now is to meet up. I hope for both your sakes you have a ball when you meet up. As its your fear you are feeling and it blowing it all out of proportion, so try to remain calm and let us know how it went......all good i will bet
mbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA16,449 posts
nuala: Hiya Ken
That so true what you said, just be your natural self as that is the reason he asked you our in the first place. As he has got to know you well over the last 2 months so all you need now is to meet up. I hope for both your sakes you have a ball when you meet up. As its your fear you are feeling and it blowing it all out of proportion, so try to remain calm and let us know how it went......all good i will bet
Hi Nuala!!!
Good words...
She will be nervous, but that is natural. I am sure it will go well.
Have others around when you meet him in case he turns out to be a creep in person. Get his DL #, Lic. plate # and first and last name asap. Give copies to people you know.
Yes, it is good that you two are meeting in a public place as that is a MUST for the first date. Be yourself, smile and listen a lot. If you two are fortunate that chemistry is obvious, you'll let us know, will you. If chemistry is not there you could perhaps met a new friend. Best of luck to you.
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