Actually Lela....there is quite a major difference between a Man and a Woman both in as mentally and in brain function....a great book on this one is called 'Why Men don't listen, and Why Woman can't read maps'....a brilliant,well written, and easy book to read now I am not 100% certain on the Authors names but if my memory serves me correct here... 'Alan and Barbara Pease'
GothbabeDurban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa1,623 posts
Hey everyone.....
IMO.....If the shoe fits.....
If I was to hold a grudge against ALL men who ever hurt me, I promise you it would keep me busy forever and I wouldn't have the time or the energy to open myself to another relationship. My heart would be filled with so much hatred, mistrust and anger that it would be visible from the outside as well.
Some people DO feel comfortable living a life like that and they don't really much care what other people think of them....as long as they can hurt, doesn't matter who. It's up to us to decide whether we will let these people get to us or just move past their conniving nature. We don't know what their life has been like up until now and we don't have a CLUE what's going on in their lives right now. So I'd say, don't be so quick to judge......
Male bashing is one thing that is responsible for destroying America and western nations! Balance needs to be restored between men and women in society.
sjenner: Male bashing is one thing that is responsible for destroying America and western nations! Balance needs to be restored between men and women in society.
sxc666: If men just learnt their place, there would be no need too bash them.
............ Really ....????...And what place is that Tina...??......Please, Pray tell.........In that case, I think I will never know... Ahem.....'The Place'.....
virgiomonkey: ............ Really ....????...And what place is that Tina...??......Please, Pray tell.........In that case, I think I will never know... Ahem.....'The Place'.....
If I was to hold a grudge against ALL men who ever hurt me, I promise you it would keep me busy forever and I wouldn't have the time or the energy to open myself to another relationship. My heart would be filled with so much hatred, mistrust and anger that it would be visible from the outside as well.
.......Fair call........and really sorry that you have had a rough time....look there are still Good and decent Guys still out there.....
The bottom line is there are people who bash............ neither female or male............... If they have it in them, they will do it. Bashers are bashers.
GothbabeDurban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa1,623 posts
NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: The bottom line is there are people who bash............ neither female or male............... If they have it in them, they will do it. Bashers are bashers.
mylifewithu: Hello Walter, I hope you are doing great, I sure am , I just got my third grandbaby and a really recent new boyfriend. LIFE IS COOL!!
Hello Lela and I guess I am behind on things here. Did't know you had a new man! Best of luck to you sweetie. And hope that grandson is doing great as well.
virgiomonkey: Beg to differ....but,in a nice way...
'Male and females aren't that much different'
Actually Lela....there is quite a major difference between a Man and a Woman both in as mentally and in brain function....a great book on this one is called 'Why Men don't listen, and Why Woman can't read maps'....a brilliant,well written, and easy book to read now I am not 100% certain on the Authors names but if my memory serves me correct here... 'Alan and Barbara Pease'
J.D
Nope I would say In all males and all females you could find compatiable match for them. Cause we all run different stages of maturity, intelligence , common sense and feelings towards others is enough to find that we aren't totally different. Yeah nature plays a part and we are better each at certain things , but that is a major part of team work not separation.
acizur: It seems to me that there really is no place on this site for a straight male. It seems every time one turns around the males of the world are being slandered. Do women here not like men? I am not saying that the site is full of lesbians, but rather are women so hurt by and bitter about men that they have to cut them down even in the slightest of ways. I guess I need some help understanding the reasoning behind it.
wait a minute....isn't complaining a territory of women?lol...why you men keep complaining about women! if one woman is bashing, then go to another woman! please!
Shirley49WV: Hello Lela and I guess I am behind on things here. Did't know you had a new man! Best of luck to you sweetie. And hope that grandson is doing great as well.
Hello sweetie, it just happened very recently and I only mentioned it today, cause it only happened yesterday. But it looks great.
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