"whats wrong in fling or short term or just fun !!" (14)

Feb 21, 2009 3:33 AM CST "whats wrong in fling or short term or just fun !!"
stranger_knockin
stranger_knockinstranger_knockincdg, Auckland New Zealand8 Threads 42 Posts
i just want to know, why woman cant enjoy present and what ever come rather then sitting and waiting long for somebody ..who may be or may not be right one for them!!
Feb 21, 2009 3:48 AM CST "whats wrong in fling or short term or just fun !!"
Ralf74
Ralf74Ralf74Bacchus Marsh, Victoria Australia44 Threads 2 Polls 4,241 Posts
stranger_knockin: i just want to know, why woman cant enjoy present and what ever come rather then sitting and waiting long for somebody ..who may be or may not be right one for them!!


Different strokes for different folks, i guess. We have had this topic a lot lately and maybe we should just learn to accept and respect that not all people want what we want. There have been a lot of generalisations about both men and women in these forums. Maybe we should put some responsibility back on ourselves and assess the behaviours that we put out there to attract the attention that we get??? I think we tend to appeal to certain types of people through the vibes and body language we put out. Maybe we need to change our mannerisms to attract a different sort! dunno
Feb 22, 2009 3:26 PM CST "whats wrong in fling or short term or just fun !!"
Abo_Idol2009
Abo_Idol2009Abo_Idol2009Lismore, New South Wales Australia23 Threads 112 Posts
Ralf74: Different strokes for different folks, i guess. We have had this topic a lot lately and maybe we should just learn to accept and respect that not all people want what we want. There have been a lot of generalisations about both men and women in these forums. Maybe we should put some responsibility back on ourselves and assess the behaviours that we put out there to attract the attention that we get??? I think we tend to appeal to certain types of people through the vibes and body language we put out. Maybe we need to change our mannerisms to attract a different sort!
like nelson mandela said our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyondmeasure. it is our light, not darkness, that most frightens us. we ask ourselves, who am i to be brilliant, georgous, talented and fabolous. actually, who are you not to be.? you are a child of god. your playing small doesnt serve the world. there is nothing enlightening about shrinking. so that other people wont feel insecure around you. we are born to make manifest the glory of god that is within us. it's not just within some of us , its in everyone! and as we let our light shine, we unconciously give other people permissino to do the same. as we are liberated from our own fear, our precence automatically liberates others! 1994 inaigaral speech.......
Feb 22, 2009 5:59 PM CST "whats wrong in fling or short term or just fun !!"
Ralf74
Ralf74Ralf74Bacchus Marsh, Victoria Australia44 Threads 2 Polls 4,241 Posts
Abo_Idol2009: like nelson mandela said our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyondmeasure. it is our light, not darkness, that most frightens us. we ask ourselves, who am i to be brilliant, georgous, talented and fabolous. actually, who are you not to be.? you are a child of god. your playing small doesnt serve the world. there is nothing enlightening about shrinking. so that other people wont feel insecure around you. we are born to make manifest the glory of god that is within us. it's not just within some of us , its in everyone! and as we let our light shine, we unconciously give other people permissino to do the same. as we are liberated from our own fear, our precence automatically liberates others! 1994 inaigaral speech.......


Wow, that was powerful, Idol, thank you. thumbs up
Feb 22, 2009 6:46 PM CST "whats wrong in fling or short term or just fun !!"
stranger_knockin
stranger_knockinstranger_knockincdg, Auckland New Zealand8 Threads 42 Posts
Abo_Idol2009: like nelson mandela said our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyondmeasure. it is our light, not darkness, that most frightens us. we ask ourselves, who am i to be brilliant, georgous, talented and fabolous. actually, who are you not to be.? you are a child of god. your playing small doesnt serve the world. there is nothing enlightening about shrinking. so that other people wont feel insecure around you. we are born to make manifest the glory of god that is within us. it's not just within some of us , its in everyone! and as we let our light shine, we unconciously give other people permissino to do the same. as we are liberated from our own fear, our precence automatically liberates others! 1994 inaigaral speech.......


i understand where u coming from ! but also describe the summary of it .....!!
Feb 22, 2009 8:03 PM CST "whats wrong in fling or short term or just fun !!"
wayne1791971
wayne1791971wayne1791971Gosford, New South Wales Australia6 Threads 2 Polls 54 Posts
stranger_knockin: i just want to know, why woman cant enjoy present and what ever come rather then sitting and waiting long for somebody ..who may be or may not be right one for them!!

When both parties are consenting adults not a problem. But for thoose that wish to what to find that someone special that is there choose.
Try getting out in the real world there are women out there that want the same as you.
The local pub nightclub at closing sure to find a stray.rolling on the floor laughingrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Feb 23, 2009 1:22 AM CST "whats wrong in fling or short term or just fun !!"
InkedHeart
InkedHeartInkedHeartWhangarei, Northland New Zealand4 Threads 880 Posts
wayne1791971: When both parties are consenting adults not a problem. But for thoose that wish to what to find that someone special that is there choose.
Try getting out in the real world there are women out there that want the same as you.
The local pub nightclub at closing sure to find a stray.


maybe he walking with his eyes closed to see the stray dunno rolling on the floor laughing
Feb 23, 2009 2:36 AM CST "whats wrong in fling or short term or just fun !!"
Threadbare
ThreadbareThreadbareDelhi, India274 Posts
Better to have lived and loved than never lived at all. Or something like that.......



confused
Feb 23, 2009 6:48 PM CST "whats wrong in fling or short term or just fun !!"
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
Timmy27: here, here. If both parties are happy with the arrangements then why should anyone else care.


Very true.....so if both parties are happy and contented with so called agreed arrangements,what business is it to anyone else.....none...

John Dutchie grin
Feb 24, 2009 4:44 PM CST "whats wrong in fling or short term or just fun !!"
wayne1791971
wayne1791971wayne1791971Gosford, New South Wales Australia6 Threads 2 Polls 54 Posts
InkedHeart: looks in my dictionary .. UGLY is not even a word for you

Thax Inked hug was just taking the piss in all honesty if this guy would just get out in the real world and talk with the ladies maybe buy them a drink dance with them. Insteed post a profile and expects you ladies to come running.
Feb 24, 2009 5:25 PM CST "whats wrong in fling or short term or just fun !!"
InkedHeart
InkedHeartInkedHeartWhangarei, Northland New Zealand4 Threads 880 Posts
wayne1791971: Thax Inked was just taking the piss in all honesty if this guy would just get out in the real world and talk with the ladies maybe buy them a drink dance with them. Insteed post a profile and expects you ladies to come running.


you're welcome wayne hug

true that .. but he don't realise that some of us women are too strong minded to fall in his web. laugh
Feb 25, 2009 6:49 AM CST "whats wrong in fling or short term or just fun !!"
sunshine1961
sunshine1961sunshine1961Perth, Western Australia Australia40 Posts
great speach.....I don't feel blue anymore...wave
Feb 25, 2009 6:51 AM CST "whats wrong in fling or short term or just fun !!"
sunshine1961
sunshine1961sunshine1961Perth, Western Australia Australia40 Posts
Abo_Idol2009: like nelson mandela said our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyondmeasure. it is our light, not darkness, that most frightens us. we ask ourselves, who am i to be brilliant, georgous, talented and fabolous. actually, who are you not to be.? you are a child of god. your playing small doesnt serve the world. there is nothing enlightening about shrinking. so that other people wont feel insecure around you. we are born to make manifest the glory of god that is within us. it's not just within some of us , its in everyone! and as we let our light shine, we unconciously give other people permissino to do the same. as we are liberated from our own fear, our precence automatically liberates others! 1994 inaigaral speech.......

I mean I like this...handshake
Feb 25, 2009 6:59 AM CST "whats wrong in fling or short term or just fun !!"
sunshine1961
sunshine1961sunshine1961Perth, Western Australia Australia40 Posts
Abo_Idol2009: like nelson mandela said our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyondmeasure. it is our light, not darkness, that most frightens us. we ask ourselves, who am i to be brilliant, georgous, talented and fabolous. actually, who are you not to be.? you are a child of god. your playing small doesnt serve the world. there is nothing enlightening about shrinking. so that other people wont feel insecure around you. we are born to make manifest the glory of god that is within us. it's not just within some of us , its in everyone! and as we let our light shine, we unconciously give other people permissino to do the same. as we are liberated from our own fear, our precence automatically liberates others! 1994 inaigaral speech.......


I did search on this quote and found that Nelson never said that. It was the quotation by Marianne Williamson. To be precise, it is from her 1992 book, "Return to Love".
It doesnt matter now. Very good.
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