Members Help

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Before you login, the site does not know who you are or what gender you are, so we wouldn't know what to show you. But once you login, you should be shown only men's photos and profiles. However, the banner ads are from Google, and not under our control.

Also, there are 8 boxes across the bottom of some pages. They have a mixture of ads and CS profiles. But they are also from Google and not controlled by us.

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This site has rules to protect members and their experience here. Knowing, accepting and following the rules is required for membership. It is not site staff's responsibility to warn you when you break them.

• Members who break the rules or whose behavior on the site, blogs, or forums is unacceptable may be removed without warning.
• Members who attempt to use the site for reasons other than dating (such as soliciting of ANY kind, money or romance scam, building mailing lists, identity theft, multiple or fake profiles, or any suspicious activity) will be removed without notice.
• Members under legal age will be removed.
• If the profile of someone you have been communicating with suddenly disappears, they have likely been removed for safety and quality of the site and members. No warning or notice will be sent.

Although it's common to hear a banned member complain about the rules, or that members who reported them got them banned...this is NOT true! When banning is necessary, it was the member's own bad behavior that got them banned. Members are adults and held accountable for their own actions here.

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There are several reasons why a member might disappear from the site:

• The member has been removed from the site by staff (as a result of complaints received about the member, or the member using the site for purposes other than dating: mass mailing, soliciting, requesting money from members, etc.)
• The member has hidden their profile
• The member has cancelled their profile
• If you are trying to find them via a username search, you may have misspelled their username.

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Use the Report Abuse link in the footer of this page, or click on the " Report This Profile" link on the member's profile (at the bottom of the page).